Something has kept popping up on my mind for the past few months and I wanted to start a conversation on it.Â
It seems (this is a subjective observation open to debate) to me that many times, when one writes an article in direct opposition or disagreement with something another person has said or done, the other person is severely inclined to be personally hurt by it.
This makes sense to a certain degree. What I believe is a part of who I am.  When I write or say something to another person and they challenge that, it feels like they are challenging me. When a person devotes their lives/ministries/time to a particular area and then they are told (sometimes repeatedly) that they are wrong, it seems to me that would feel like everything they believe in is being challenged.
It is important to note a few things. First, there are some people who when they disagree with somebody else, will attack that persons character.  That’s not good, they need to be confronted. Second, this site and its authors attempt to avoid personal attacks.
It is hard to see things you’ve said and done be attacked when you feel you’ve worked hard serving Christ in whatever ministry you are in. It feels personal. This is a major challenge for ministers in the church (let alone on the web) because pride begins to creep in and we want to defend ourselves and say everything I did was right. It’s good for us to remember that our thoughts, words, and actions do not always glorify God. Even when we want them to.









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