Someone known to be wise once wrote:

What has been will be again,
what has been done will be done again;
there is nothing new under the sun.

Is there anything of which one can say,
“Look! This is something new”?
It was here already, long ago;
it was here before our time.

There is no remembrance of men of old,
and even those who are yet to come
will not be remembered
by those who follow.

How true. One of the other writers here noted the innate sadness of this particular news story, in which a young college coed has decided to sell her virginity (”legally” through a Nevada brothel) in order to fund her schooling. In reading this, I’m reminded of a story I’ve heard several times:

A man approaches a young woman and asks “If I paid you a million dollars, would you sleep with me?” The woman thinks about it and says “A million dollars? Sure, I suppose so.” The man replies “OK, how about $20?” The woman, indignant, says “What do you think I am?” to which the man replies “We’ve already established your profession, now we’re just haggling on the price.”

In the aforementioned news story, we learn that the woman isn’t just going to go for the highest bidder:

Dylan is a bright, beautiful young woman who’s going to consider a number of factors in her decision because she wants her first time to be a positive experience. “Natalie is a very smart girl. All she wants to do is get her master’s degree in family and marriage counseling and be a psychologist. She’s selling her virginity to accomplish that, [...] She’s smart enough to sell it. This is empowering her.”

So far, hundreds of offers have already come in including some from male virgins. Natalie says she won’t give up her virginity to the highest bidder. She’s also seeking other qualities from her first lover. “I’m looking for intelligence and an overall nice person,” said Dylan.

Somehow, I think that she’s “looking for intelligence and an overall nice person” with the same likelihood of success as the fellow who is looking for a low-interest, no-strings-attached loan from the Corleone family.

But this really isn’t anything new – we’ve had movies on similar subjects and this isn’t the first student to go high-tech in selling a gift she can only give once. I also suspect that, if she is “successful”, it will only create more copy-cats. In a way, to me, it feels like watching an unfolding drama that simply re-illustrates the same book of the Bible, quoted above.

Extremes

Rich Mullins used to sign many of his autographs “Be good, but not too good…” in paraphrase of Ecclesiastes 7:

Do not be overrighteous,
neither be overwise—
why destroy yourself?

Do not be overwicked,
and do not be a fool—
why die before your time?

It is good to grasp the one
and not let go of the other.
The man who fears God will avoid all extremes

None of the systems of this world will bring about happiness, and none are part and parcel of the kingdom because, by they are all part of what Jesus intended when he spoke of “the world” – kosmos. Some Christians long for a theocracy, but in the end they end up advocating facism. Others desire a nanny state which will care for and protect everyone from themselves.

Others still, desire a bare framework, allowing for personal freedom except where it infringes upon other people – but this too, as we see daily, leads to ruin in its extremes.

In the case of the young coed, she is just a symptom of the larger problem. We see it in many other realms – in science that only asks “can it be done?” but never “should it be done?”, in law enforcement that vacillates between the poles of vigilantism and arrogant authoritarianism, and in the church, as well, especially when we systematize it. I cannot help but believe that Christians have aided and abetted in the ongoing collapse of the U.S. financial market, because we are unwilling to “break the system” by living within our means.

But in the end, the kingdom of God is not built in the systems of this world – it transcends them. As Jesus notes, we are to live within the world’s systems, but not to accept them as truth. We are to be in the systems, but not a product of them.

There is nothing new under the sun, but that doesn’t mean we should fall to despair – even when we are personally despairing. Instead, it means that we need to pray and walk, with fear and trembling, and learn how to break from the system

My honest hope for this deluded girl is that whoever “wins” the contest is someone who has no desire to cash in the prize. Maybe someone who will help her out with her schooling – no strings attached. Someone who will share with her that she is not an object to be bought or sold, but that she has already been bought at a steep price, and cared for at the deepest level. Someone who was created in the image of God, not just a walking clod of dirt. Someone who will meet her like Jesus at the Samarian well.

Someone who will break from the system…

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1   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 11:37 am

Is there room for a retroactive plan? :cool:

By now we should not be surprised by depravity. When the depraved act with a genuine reflection of their state it must elicit spiritual concern. It is good to remember that the girl who saves herself until marriage but is not in Christ is equally as depraved as this lost woman. And equally depraved as the men who bid on this girl’s offer, OR any man that would given the right undiscoverable circumstances. OR any man who has entertained lewd and adulterous thoughts in his mind.

Depravity? I’m declaring it a six billion way tie.

2   Keith    http://fivepts.blogspot.com
September 15th, 2008 at 12:15 pm

“I’m looking for intelligence and an overall nice person…” (emphasis mine)

So, I guess that makes it OK. **sigh**

3   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 12:30 pm

Let us pray for Ray Boltz. At 55 he has now admitted to having homosexual feelings. I have read his interview that was linked by Ingrid and I grieve for him. Of course much of the church will use him as proof of whatever they want and offer little redemption.

He must be in a bad place.

4   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 15th, 2008 at 1:27 pm

He must be in a bad place.

Or maybe he is finally in a good place.

5   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 2:00 pm

dave,

I agree, to admit such feelings is better than hiding them as these type of “sins” (used very loosly as feelings to me are not sinful in the sense of actively pursuing the actions) can manefest in acting out later.

To me this is more common than most men will admit. Yet, satan can use this as “proof” that one is gay when they are not. “Feelings” can be mixed with all sorts of things issues. Some men may have man-crushes and never act our sexually, but still love that other man…

In some ways I think that we in the American church are very unhealthy our understanding of homosexuality and label many things gay when they may not be.

Now I do not even suppose I know anything about Ray Boltz issues… it may be more than “feelings” or it may be something that comes and passes and is not that big of a thing… like craving ice cream but not taking the action to run to the store and get it… but soon the craving leaves.

To me Ray needed not make it public unless his intentions were to help others. In that some will judge him and condemn them as they is just what they do… that is their sin… and as I stated to some of them, they need to look in their own mirror and deal with their own hate and whatever else themselves and not project it onto others.

iggy

6   nc    
September 15th, 2008 at 2:48 pm

I loved Ingrid’s analysis of how the lyrical content of the music is “to blame”.

Talk about being in the deep end of the pool without your water wings…

7   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 15th, 2008 at 3:28 pm

Hey, at least she didn’t blame it on soy

8   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 3:49 pm

“I loved Ingrid’s analysis of how the lyrical content of the music is “to blame”.”

It just goes to show you that there is no human tragedy or struggle that cannot be used to trumpet your myopic view on a subject that is unrelated to the issue. Is there another and stronger word for “narcissism”?

9   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 4:09 pm

Today’s Sermon:

How Rick Warren and Miley Cyrus are Destroying the World.

Don’t miss next week as I kick off a series entitled:

Exposing Depravity for Those Who Don’t Have the Time to Expose it for Themselves

In this series I will provide volumes of information that proves people today are depraved. All the information will be provided in scrapbook form for future meditation. :)

10   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 4:31 pm

Iggy,

What I think you are missing here is the content of Ray’s ‘coming out’ party.

I read the article put out by a homosexual focussed magazine. In it, the details of Ray’s personal struggle. In it, details of Ray’s divorce, told from his perspective.

Isn’t there a verse somewhere that says God hates divorce? Yes..it is found in Malachi.

Also, Ray details in his article how he is not the only homosexual in the Christian music business. He claims these many just don’t come out because they ‘know’ their audience. Sadly, I am afraid, that many that listen to this stuff they call CCM would be just as accepting of this revelation as the gay community.

Why do I say this? They suck in stuff by Phillips Craig and Dean, who are admitted that they believe in the heresy followed by TD Jakes where they do not believe in the deity of Jesus Christ! Many suck in stuff by Amy Grant, Sandi Patti, et.al who have destroyed their marriages and families, all which God hates, and yet people still believe that they are Christians, even though they act in direct contradiction to God’s standards!

And Iggy, please do not shove the word grace at me. I am not judging these based on my standard. These are all better than me. I am a far worse sinner in need of God’s grace. But, what I do not condone is a very public sin justified in the name of Christ because it makes them feel better. That is selfishness, and pride, the root of so many justifications of sin.

While many on this site chide and carp at Ken and Ingrid for their brand of discernment, we would all do well to discern news like this in light of scripture. Ray Boltz happens to be a homosexual. God didn’t make him that way, he chose to follow his sin nature down that path. I could just as easily follow my sin nature because I am a natural dog, I could fornicate on a daily basis, because, I could say, God made me this way. What I must do instead is to confess and repent, forsaking my self and my sin and throw myself on the mercy and grace of God.

I will not link the site, because I feel like it promotes the gay lifestyle and the fact that you too can be a Christian and be a homosexual and act on those feelings by destroying your family and still call yourself a Christian artist.

And as to the original OP, while I feel sorry for this girl, She is really just doing what the depraved mind would allow. She does not need money for college, she needs a new heart and new mind, which only Jesus can give her.

11   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 4:44 pm

John – I believe the fact that Bolz was a singer/songwriter is irrelevant. And I believe the Scriptures are clear about practicing homosexuality. But I cannot be blind and uncaring for those who struggle with those attractions, some of whom had them from birth.

The phrase “God did not make them that way” is a good catch phrase, but it oversimplifies a complex issue. Did God make hermaphrodites? Siamese twins? Everyone of us is born a sinner, so did God make us sinners?

To suggest that music had anything to do with the ones you mentioned is absurd. I will admit that the travelling and often unaccountable lifestyle of some musicians is a contributing factor. But what would I do if one of my sons came to me in brokenness and in desperation and admitted he had hidden same sex attractions for as long as he could remember?

I cannot change God’s Word, but I also cannot just throw some worn out phrases that I used to use and feel no pathos for their plight. I understand now that I can never fully understand, but there has to be redemption somewhere in every situation.

Rejection and judgment is the easy way out.

12   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 4:55 pm

FYI – Can Amy/Sandi ever repent, then?

I would hope so. In fact, I saw a quite contrite Amy Grant here in Indianapolis a couple of years ago (unbilled, helping out a musical friend), who was very apologetic to the folks in attendance and was 180-degrees different from the Amy of 15-20 years ago.

Sometimes when you fall from a high place and break, when God puts you back together, you’re much more human when He picks you up again.

So, if you’re a Christian in the public eye and you fail morally at some point, can God still use you in a public manner or will the rest of Christianity never forgive you for not being perfect?

Apparently for you, PB, it is the latter…

NOTE: None of this is in context to the Boltz discussion, as I’ve not read/sorted out enough about the situation.

13   nc    
September 15th, 2008 at 5:29 pm

Ummm…not that it’s the main point of the OP, and at the risk of nit-picking…

With respect to Sandi Patty… and at the risk of sounding cryptic…I would be careful to cast her situation as simply as you do, PB.

I can tell you unequivocally that her marriages failure was the result of a deeply abusive/controlling husband, the affair was merely a symptomatic “acting out” of woundedness.

She was “exposed” by Christian publications well after the fact of the behavioral issues and well after the fact that she was under the direction/discipline of her church leadership that was handling it.

ALSO, she was so crapped on by legalism gods that even years afterwards she was still immolating herself as a burnt offering to them…a prominent Christian leader/author even had to tell her to stop apologizing, that it was enough and she was just playing–with good, humble intentions–into the hands of the imams and the god-squads that really know nothing about grace/redemption and the love of God.

I’ll say nothing more, but please be careful with your “clarity” when you don’t know the complex of issues at play…

14   Joe C    http://joe4gzus.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 5:47 pm

Just because someone deliberately sins, does not mean they aren’t Christian.

15   Joe C    http://www.joe4gzus.blogspot.com
September 15th, 2008 at 5:52 pm

What’s up with the closed comments on the top post?

16   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 6:10 pm

sorry – will get it fixed. For some reason, new posts are defaulting to not allow comments.

17   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 8:37 pm

Whatever PB… whatever… and I think you miss a lot of points all the time…

Good day
iggy

18   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 8:40 pm

PB,

And you are very ignorant on the this topic…

I am the one that deals with the aftermath of people like you who do more harm to those in this type of situation…

iggy

19   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 8:42 pm

And I do not believe God made them that way…

Sin did…

iggy

20   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
September 15th, 2008 at 9:03 pm

Iggy, I think it will be beneficial for us all if you ignore Pastorboy’s comments and vica virsa. If this thread becomes another word boxing match between the two of you… I’d rather have a root canal!

21   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 9:30 pm

Iggy, I second Eugene’s admonition. – PLEASE!

22   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
September 15th, 2008 at 11:39 pm

Ok,

I agree… I am not going to come here anymore… I understand…

iggy

23   Joe C    http://www.joe4gzus.blogspot.com
September 15th, 2008 at 11:55 pm

I hope you’re not serious.

24   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
September 16th, 2008 at 12:36 am

That’s not what I want Iggy. I just want you and Pastorboy to stay out of each others hair. I like you and generally appreciate your comments. Let love win, ok?

25   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
September 16th, 2008 at 3:18 am

My previous comment (#24) may give the impression that I have some authority at this blog. I do not have any authority here and only enjoy the privilege of being allowed to comment without being moderated (for now ;) ). Sorry for possibly creating the wrong impression. :oops:

26   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 16th, 2008 at 7:03 am

I have benefited from reading and commenting on blogs, as well as writing on my own. I have learned how different people think, I have grown in my acceptance of people, I have had to confront my own flesh from time to time, I have learned to absorb attacks, I have become informed on issues I had not known before, I have had to apologize, I have learned to say things differently and with more grace, I have had to hone my interaction skills, and I have listened to the Spirit teach me about being wrong while being right.

I almost withdrew several times but I felt God leading me back because I don’t feel like anyone should do something out of emotion. Sometimes the most aggravating circumstances are the best crucible in which God can do His best work on me.

Iggy, I hope you read this. The body of Christ resembles the bar room scene on Star Wars and all of us are still in process. Me especially.

27   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 17th, 2008 at 8:59 am

Eugene,

I don’t have much hair to begin with!

28   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
September 17th, 2008 at 9:10 am

Lol, I thought of that after I posted.

29   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 17th, 2008 at 9:19 am

Or maybe he is finally in a good place.

He is. Trust me.

I loved Ingrid’s analysis of how the lyrical content of the music is “to blame”.

Talk about being in the deep end of the pool without your water wings…

Hehehehehehe…

Now, two things:

CCM is full of gay people, both on stage and off, because where there is musical talent, there will be gay. It has always been this way.

Also, Amy Grant is EXTREMELY supportive of her gay fan base.

So…you know…if that bothers you, set up one of those big CD burning bonfires, it’ll be great!

30   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 4:40 pm

In the past self sacrifice was lauded. Now married gays who come out of the closet, divorce their wives, break up their family are lauded for “being true to themselves”. Further, society and the Church is blaimed for “forcing” these people into trying to be normal. “If the Church were more tolerant and accepting then these individuals would not be forced to live a lie in the first place”, many say. Well news flash, no one forced them to get married or to live a lie. Millions do not. ALL sin is from love of self, gay or straight. So why do these people get a free pass? Life goes on. “I’m gay. I’ve left my wife and children, living a life true to myself. Move along, that’s the only thing that has changed. BTW – I’m having a record sale . . . ” I mean really. Why are they lauded for leaving a swath of destruction in the wake of their path to supposed “freedom”? Are they the only ones who suffer? Who morns for the wifes and children?

31   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 4:43 pm

BTT: He is. Trust me.

There is one I trust in this BTT and He is not you. And as you VERY well know, having yourself spent a life of research on the subject His main admonition on this very subject is “Do Not Be Deceived”.

32   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 4:44 pm

BTT: CCM is full of gay people, both on stage and off, because where there is musical talent, there will be gay. It has always been this way.

Uh yeah. And where there is football and hunting and rednecks there is gay. Good grief, if a straight person said this they would be castigated.

33   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 5:34 pm

Rick: It is good to remember that the girl who saves herself until marriage but is not in Christ is equally as depraved as this lost woman.

In the ultimate sense as in James 2:10, I agree Rick. But in the temporal there are “levels” of sin and the effects of such on the close-by and society in general vary. On any level this is sad. Expect at least a TV-Movie about this “event”. Yes, on one level we should not be surprised at the actions of the lost (or saved for that matter). But on the other hand we are so overwhelmed and desensatized by the rampant ungodliness we see today that we have forgotten **how** to blush. Such things now days elicit hardly a “meh” when in days past . . . well you know the drill. However, I look at my own sin and can’t seem to find a stone to cast her way. Oh wait! There’s one in my shoe!

34   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 5:41 pm

Also, Amy Grant is EXTREMELY supportive of her gay fan base.

As is John MacArthur his.

35   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 6:09 pm

Slice reports/comments on secular news stories that detail the sins of others and is castigated.

CRN.info reports/comments on secular news stories that detail the sins of others and is . . .

I don’t have a problem with either BTW. But its true — them’s that’s “in” are “in” and them that’s “out” are “out”. Just say’n.

Everyone has their homeboys. That’s just the way it is.

Now THAT would make a great song title. :-)

36   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 17th, 2008 at 6:19 pm

John – Where does this site link to and comment on secular exposes on the sins of others?

37   John Hughes    
September 17th, 2008 at 6:33 pm

Ah, Rick. **This** very article. Am I missing something? I would not know of this girl’s sin if it had not been repeated here.

But again, I am not opposed per se. I see some potential value in the discussion of such. I was just pointing out the double standard.

38   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 17th, 2008 at 6:39 pm

Maybe on some level, John. But this tone seems different:

“Someone who will meet her like Jesus at the Samarian well.”

I do not believe Christ posted this in order to substantiate his self righteous contentions about what is wrong with society and what is wrong with the church – except for him and his church. I consider that a major difference.

39   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 17th, 2008 at 8:45 pm

Uh yeah. And where there is football and hunting and rednecks there is gay. Good grief, if a straight person said this they would be castigated.

I say them so you don’t have to.

And actually, some straight people could totally get away with saying this.

But yes, it’s true that football, hunting, and rednecks all feature gays as well — even so, there does seem to be a correlation between the artistic brain and the gay brain. Science will probably find it one day.

40   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 17th, 2008 at 8:48 pm

There are no gays in Sumo wrestling. :)

41   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 17th, 2008 at 9:01 pm

But yes, it’s true that football, hunting, and rednecks all feature gays as well — even so, there does seem to be a correlation between the artistic brain and the gay brain. Science will probably find it one day.

Well, there could be a correlation, but it might not be that a larger percentage of gay people are artists than the general population, but just that a larger percentage of artists are gay than the normal population.

I think part of it might be for the simple fact that gays are often treated better in the places where artistic-types usually are – places like the theater, ballet, etc. To a large extent, they probably are treated better there, and there’s not as much fear of coming out compared to other segments of the population.

42   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 17th, 2008 at 9:10 pm

There are no gays in curling.

43   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 17th, 2008 at 9:17 pm

I think part of it might be for the simple fact that gays are often treated better in the places where artistic-types usually are – places like the theater, ballet, etc.

Well yes, artistic people are generally less hateful, but to make it, one has to have real talent. Seriously, there’s probably a biological correlation.

If you look back in history, SO many of the great composers, authors, painters, etc., were gay. There seems to be a correlation across cultures, societies, and eras.

44   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 6:42 am

Rick: I do not believe Christ posted this in order to substantiate his self righteous contentions about what is wrong with society and what is wrong with the church – except for him and his church. I consider that a major difference.

Good point.

45   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 6:49 am

BTT: If you look back in history, SO many of the great composers, authors, painters, etc., were gay.

Undeniably true, but so many of the geat composers, authors, painters, etc. were also alcoholics and promiscuous libertines. Perhaps we should celebrate those lifestyles too!

46   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 8:00 am

That is such a anti-scholarly association to make.

Seriously.

Try again.

Call it a “lifestyle” again, too, because that puts you at odds with every credible mental health professional in the nation.

47   M.G.    
September 18th, 2008 at 8:03 am

John,

The point about a large number of artists being gay was to support the claim that an unknown number of the CCM community are actually gay. The point wasn’t, “look how great being gay is because they’ve given us so many Showtunes.” So please respond to arguments actually *made* and not just the ones swirling around in your head.
For what it’s worth, you have come across on this thread as angry and bitter. I wonder why that is.

48   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 8:08 am

Danke.

49   chris    
September 18th, 2008 at 8:51 am

. And where there is football and hunting and rednecks there is gay.

And on the third day, God created the Remington bolt action rifle so that Man could fight the dinosaurs. And the homosexuals. Amen. Amen.

Sorry to turn a serious conversation on it’s side… couldn’t resist it seemed to perfect.

50   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 8:54 am

And on the third day, God created the Remington bolt action rifle so that Man could fight the dinosaurs. And the homosexuals. Amen. Amen.

From airplanes, even.

Wouldn’t want to make the hunters, you know…hunt.

51   chris    
September 18th, 2008 at 9:08 am

From airplanes, even

I think hunting from an airplane would be hunting. Now a helicopter moves a little slower and hovers so it would be easier. LOL

52   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 9:19 am

MG: For what it’s worth, you have come across on this thread as angry and bitter.

Angry, yes. Bitter no.

I wonder why that is.

Well M.G. I am actually a “tolerant” person. (No laughter please). I see all mankind as sinners and I see the sin in my own life. Homosexuality is no worse a sin than adultery or fornication. I am sympathetic and fully live my life in trying to show mercy and grace. I fully believe that one will be shown mercy as they have shown mercy and will be forgiven as they have forgiven and will be judged as they have judged. I try to condemn no man. What makes me **angry** is not when the unsaved (or saved) sin, necessarily. We are all on this same journey. No, what makes me angry is when one condones the sin, takes what Scripture very plainly and unequivocally calls sin and justifies it and calls what is bad (homosexual acts) good and what is good (the condemnation of homosexual acts) bad. That is what makes me angry. In my mind that is righteous indignation. I see the trail of broken relationships, wrecked marriages and bruised and scarred children that come from these celebrated “outings” and that no one seems concerned about them while at the same time making heroes of the sinner. Yes, that makes me angry. But hey, I’ll get over it. Thanks for the concern.

53   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 9:28 am

So, I guess this begs the question. How does one show grace and mercy while at the same time not compromising on the sin?

I think, scripturally, the blatant **advocacy** of sin requires a strong rebuke. On the other hand, I think ignorance of God’s Word, penitence and godly sorrow should produce mercy and a gracious response. I’m not perfect either and if I come across as uncaring I need to work on that issue.

54   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 9:51 am

I think I agree with John

I am really quite a tolerant person, and I love and hang out with sinners and saints. The only thing that really bothers me is the incessant desire that I must approve of their sin or I am called biased or intolerant. Look, I do not go around bashing people over the head that they must accept my choice to be married to one woman and have children. Why do the homosexuals feel the need to make me agree with their homosexuality? Why do they feel the need to have PACs and march in the streets? Why should they receive more rights than me? When did homosexuals become a race or a group that has to come under the equal protection act?

When I share with homosexuals, I do not even address that particular sin. I take them through the commandments, and, as Jesus said, if you look with lust, you commit adultery. It does not matter the gender you lust after.

By the way, I believe that Jesus can change a person’s heart and desires and make them a new creature.

55   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 10:10 am

I see the trail of broken relationships, wrecked marriages and bruised and scarred children that come from these celebrated “outings”

Yeah, but you’re misdirecting the blame.

I think, scripturally, the blatant **advocacy** of sin requires a strong rebuke.

And this is why there will always be a (shrinking) group of a certain kind of Christian for whom playing well with others becomes increasingly difficult. What this certain type of Christian doesn’t seem to understand is that it’s actually not his/her place to “rebuke” others.

Why do the homosexuals feel the need to make me agree with their homosexuality? Why do they feel the need to have PACs and march in the streets? Why should they receive more rights than me? When did homosexuals become a race or a group that has to come under the equal protection act?

Not that you EVER understand things, but, in order:

1. Actually don’t care whether you “agree” with it. You can “disagree” with the sky being blue for all I care, and reality does not move.

2. We “form PACs” because we’re just like any minority group that is deserving of EQUAL rights, not EXTRA rights. You might have studied eras in the past where minority groups had to stand up.

3. “When did homosexuals become a race or a group that has to come under the equal protection act”

When reality (and an intelligent understanding of it), psychology, medical science, etc., determined that, yes, indeed we are who we are, and we’re not hurting anybody (at least not as a collective group, which is more than I can say for Christendom), and since there are people who are so petulantly ignorant as to believe that by our achieving equal status, that they are somehow being “discriminated against” (classic Fundamentalist victim mentality), the law should reflect a modern-day understanding of equal protection. By the way, your religious freedom is included under that, and I would fight for that any day, even though I heartily “disagree with your lifestyle.”

4. “When I share with homosexuals, I do not even address that particular sin.”

You’re not sharing, at least not in any human sense of the word, so I wouldn’t worry about which of your perceived sins you are or are not addressing.

56   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
September 18th, 2008 at 10:12 am

Why do they feel the need to have PACs

and march in the streets? Why should they receive more rights than me? When did homosexuals become a race or a group that has to come under the equal protection act?

Ok, I find the first part of this comment amusing coming for a guy who is a self proclaimed street preacher. I find the second part disheartening that a Christian is all that worried about his rights

57   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 10:34 am

BTT: What this certain type of Christian doesn’t seem to understand is that it’s actually not his/her place to “rebuke” others.

What a completely ironic statement from one who is constantly rebuking others.

1 Timothy 5:20 – Those who continue in sin rebuke in the presence of all, so that the rest also will be fearful of sinning.

2 Timothy 4:2 – preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction.

What is being rebuked is the “advocacy” of sin, not necessarily the sinner (and, yes BTT there is a strong Biblical mandate for it) because such advocacy affects others.

58   chris    
September 18th, 2008 at 10:55 am

I wonder how any of us would feel if we were constantly carped on about our “lifestyles”?

Well I actually don’t wonder I know.

59   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 11:02 am

Joe,

They, being homosexuals, and human, do already have rights in America. Why do they need to go overboard and push their lifestyle on me and try and get me to approve of it?

And, as a Christian, I realize that I have no rights, God gives me all that I have. As an American, as long as I breathe, I have the rights afforded me by this country, which God has placed me in while I live. Same difference.

60   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 11:08 am

Chris: I wonder how any of us would feel if we were constantly carped on about our “lifestyles”?

Well I would hope I would take the harping to the Scriptures and if the harping aligned with Scripture I hope I would repent and get my lifestyle in line with what Scripture said. Then I would thank them for the harping.

Proverbs 17:10 – A rebuke goes deeper into one who has understanding than a hundred blows into a fool.

Proverbs 10:17 – He is on the path of life who heeds instruction, But he who ignores reproof goes astray.

If the harping didn’t align with Scripture I would respond to the harper(s) accordingly and try to reason with them. If they were real jerks about it I would tell them to get lost as politely as I could and that we would just have to agree to disagree.

61   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 11:10 am

BTT,

What equal rights? You, as a person, have the same rights everybody else does. Marriage is not a right; it is an institution between one man and one woman. But yet there are still rules governing marriage; I cannot, for example, marry my sister or a 1st or second cousin (not that I would want to). But does that mean that if I am a pervert that I should go into the streets and demand these rights because I feel like God made me this way? NO WAY!

Lets just replace something else with the sin of homosexual behavior: Incest. Lets say someone feels that they were born with an innate desire, mindset, proclivity, etc. to have sexual relations with their own children. They desire the right, and have questionable science prove they have an incest gene. So now, they should become a protected minority group? How about pedophilia? Where do we draw the line at perverted behavior? And, where do we draw the line at who is a real minority group and who just wants to foist their abberant lifestyle on others by being made a minority group with extra rights?

62   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 11:12 am

What is being rebuked is the “advocacy” of sin, not necessarily the sinner (and, yes BTT there is a strong Biblical mandate for it) because such advocacy affects others.

I can understand why homosexuals would feel the need to be defensive in many respects. I certainly have heard some very hateful things from Christians through the years, and no, it’s not just from the Fred Phelps of the world.

The passages in Timothy you quote are all in the context of a local congregation, not in the context of the entirety of Christendom. Rebuke happens at the level the sin impacts people. Actually, if you look at the context, 1 Timothy 5:20 is dealing specifically with the sins of elders, not just anyone.

Homosexuality shouldn’t be dealth with any differently than any other sin. It seems were much more willing to work with people such as gossipers and adulterers, but for some reason, homosexuals receive the blunt of the wrath.

63   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 11:12 am

Chris,

You would get no harping from me if you did not advocate a lifestyle that is contrary to Scripture and even at that I would never seek you out to carp on you personally. Anyone struggling gets my full sympathy and support. Advocacy is another issue.

64   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 11:22 am

Phil,

I agree with much of what you are saying including your thoughts on the context of the Timothy scriptures but the principal is valid and Proverbs, for example, has a lot to say about “rebuking” in general. I also agree the Church has not handled this issue well. Not to harp :-) but to me it’s the advocacy issue that is the rub. I would react the same way about advocates for legalizing prostitution for example.

You are also correct about the “acceptance” of gossipers and adulters in the church vs other sins. But on the other hand, adulterers usually know (on some level) they are sinning and don’t advocate their lifestyle be accepted as a viable, acceptable alternative.

65   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 11:26 am

But on the other hand, adulterers usually know (on some level) they are sinning and don’t advocate their lifestyle be accepted as a viable, acceptable alternative.

You might be surprised. There are probably more unmarried couples in churches who are living together than people realize. Actually, it’s not much different than the general populace if you look at the stats.

66   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 11:31 am

Phil,

That may be true in your church, not in mine!

We absolutely assign the same level of rebuke for those committing ‘little’ sins like lying, gossip, etc. These are all things that we should stay away from as Christians. We may fall into sin occasionally, but when we do we repent.

The very small, but important difference here is that (and I think John has made this point) the homosexuals and their supporters have justified their sin by changing the clear scripture. The very fact that many believe that you can be a practicing homosexual and a Christian just shows that they have been successful in changing our standards to their level. The very fact that a homosexual feels no need to repent due to this changing of the Word of God, supported by these tolerant pastors is creating a real problem when it comes to the righteous life God expects from those He has changed.

67   Bo Diaz    
September 18th, 2008 at 11:40 am

We absolutely assign the same level of rebuke for those committing ‘little’ sins like lying, gossip, etc. These are all things that we should stay away from as Christians. We may fall into sin occasionally, but when we do we repent.

If that were true your internet postings would not exist.

68   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 11:40 am

That may be true in your church, not in mine!

I see, PB. Your church is just full of perfect members…

It’s not even the fact of having someone from the pulpit condemn certain sins – which in my mind can be close to meaningless. I mean, really, most people don’t give a rat’s rear end what a pastor says.

What I’m talking about is how it is lived out. Do we make it an issue whether or not someone can be a member if they are a gossiper, or if they lust? Probably not, and we will work with them through that. But if a person admits he is a homosexual, he will most likely be shown the door in one way or another. If not explicitly, he will certainly realize he’s not welcome.

69   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 11:53 am

No, Phil, our members are not perfect.

But what we do is that we proclaim the fact that we all have personal sin, what ever that is, and it is an offense to God, and that we must repent and place our trust in Jesus.

Our membership covenant specifically mentions gossip as a sin that cannot be tolerated in our church. We encourage prayer for one another, and the MT 18:15 principle in dealing with one another.

I want to emphasize that when a believer is rebuked, in love, from a place of scripture, he may not like it, but he will repent. When a homosexual ‘christian’ is rebuked, he will use every justification under the sun. This attitude is shared by the tares among us; justification of our actions. The oldest trick in the book- “The woman you gave me…she brought the fruit….”

70   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 11:56 am

Bo,
To what are you referring?

It is not a lie to read a book from ones own bias and perspective, and have an opinion as to what the author is saying.

71   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 12:10 pm

Phil: It’s not even the fact of having someone from the pulpit condemn certain sins – which in my mind can be close to meaningless. I mean, really, most people don’t give a rat’s rear end what a pastor says.

Phil, that statement reveals more than you know. If a person has the Holy Spirit living inside them that Spirit will respond in agreement with a Scriptural rebuke and condemn the sin and convict the sinner, hopefully resulting in repentance. That conviction may be combatted, suppressed or ignored, but the conviction will be there. That is one of the Holy Spirit’s main functions and gifts to the Body. The lack of repentance is more a sign of unregenerated hearers than problems with the pastor. And what kind of believer could sit under a pastor they could not give a rat’s rear end about what he says?

72   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 12:36 pm

What is being rebuked is the “advocacy” of sin, not necessarily the sinner (and, yes BTT there is a strong Biblical mandate for it) because such advocacy affects others.

Trust me, your “biblical mandate” doesn’t carry as much weight in the real world as you think it does. I can claim I have a mandate to “rebuke” you because of a book I really love, too, but it doesn’t mean it’s not rude as hell.

They, being homosexuals, and human, do already have rights in America. Why do they need to go overboard and push their lifestyle on me and try and get me to approve of it?

Yes, but not quite as many as you. You know what’s not one of your rights? The right to not be offended by things that don’t affect you in the slightest. That’s not one of your rights.

What equal rights? You, as a person, have the same rights everybody else does. Marriage is not a right; it is an institution between one man and one woman.

No, dear. This is civil society, and marriage is one of the rights conferred in this civil (secular!) society. You may view marriage with specific spiritual connotations, but that has zero bearing on civil secular society.

Lets just replace something else with the sin of homosexual behavior: Incest.

Let’s replace your uneducated ramblings with some clarity: Incest has real-life consequences. Homosexuality (”the sin of homosexual behavior” is malevolently anti-intellectual tripe) does not. Indeed, it cannot, considering the fact that it simply is, in humans and in thousands of species.

Where do we draw the line at perverted behavior?

At where it has real-life consequences…you see, this is why people like me laugh at people like you. It’s abundantly obvious to anyone who actually has gay friends (or is gay himself) that pedophilia hurts kids, you see. However, the fact that I’m gay, whether or not I’m actually with someone, isn’t hurting anyone, and it’s definitely not hurting me.

And, where do we draw the line at who is a real minority group and who just wants to foist their abberant lifestyle on others by being made a minority group with extra

Oh lord, always with the “extra rights.” Which ones, PB? Seriously. Do you have some seekrit copy of the gay agenda that told you we’re demanding to be able to cut in front of you at the DMV? Because we were hoping to keep that one a seekrit until 2019.

if you did not advocate a lifestyle that is contrary to Scripture

Again, calling it a “lifestyle” is willfully malevolently anti-intellectual garbage. It makes one feel like the opposition are not thinking adults, but rather children who can’t accept the truth.

the homosexuals and their supporters have justified their sin by changing the clear scripture.

“The homosexuals.” Actually, PB, many of “the homosexuals” don’t believe your religious book has any bearing on anything, and considering that your side has not achieved its goal of destroying the United States with your insipid dreams of Christianized Shari’a law, your “beliefs” about it are, again, irrelevant in secular society!

73   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 12:52 pm

BTT Pretty heady rebukes there old boy for one who doesn’t think one should rebuke others! LOL.

74   Keith    http://fivepts.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 12:53 pm

PB: re: BTT, if you haven’t already figured it out, you’re “casting pearls…”

75   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 12:56 pm

BTT: Let’s replace your uneducated ramblings with some clarity: Incest has real-life consequences. Homosexuality (”the sin of homosexual behavior” is malevolently anti-intellectual tripe) does not.

**ALL** behavior has consequences. That was an interesting statement.

76   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 12:58 pm

BTT et.al.

I think that something that was not made clear enough was that I was speaking specifically to those homosexuals who call themselves Christians. If you call yourself a Christian, a follower of Christ, how can you live in darkness? how can you deny scripture? And, you can be rebuked….

77   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:02 pm

BTT,

What do you do with your NAMBLA pals? I mean, after all, they were born that way too! It would be hypocrisy (by your logic) to hold them to a different standard than you would hold yourself to!

78   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 1:03 pm

BTT: Trust me, your “biblical mandate” doesn’t carry as much weight in the real world as you think it does. I can claim I have a mandate to “rebuke” you because of a book I really love, too, but it doesn’t mean it’s not rude as hell

.

Coming from one who’s website is a cesspool of vulgarities, hate and venom.

79   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:05 pm

**ALL** behavior has consequences. That was an interesting statement.

Yes, but biological characteristics don’t have morality.

(And yes, ALL the science is pointing in the direction of sexuality being biological. ALL of it.)

80   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:08 pm

Coming from one who’s website is a cesspool of vulgarities, hate and venom.

Focus on the potty language, seriously. Because that’s a great way to distract oneself from losing an argument.

What do you do with your NAMBLA pals? I mean, after all, they were born that way too! It would be hypocrisy (by your logic) to hold them to a different standard than you would hold yourself to!

See? More stupid from you. Are you aware that NAMBLA isn’t even part of the gay rights movement? Are you aware that ALL the research shows that gays are no more likely to be pedophiles than straight people? ALL the research. (Paul Cameron is not credible, by the way, since he can’t even get published in a journal without paying for it. His contemporaries uniformly think he’s a joke.)

But yet again, you forget (refuse to acknowledge) the difference: pedophiles have victims.

Gay people fall in love and get married and raise families. Or they don’t! Either way, no victims, and it has no bearing on your life.

81   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:15 pm

But aren’t they made that way, BTT?

Your justification of your lifestyle is rife with hypocrisy.

82   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:15 pm

Phil, that statement reveals more than you know. If a person has the Holy Spirit living inside them that Spirit will respond in agreement with a Scriptural rebuke and condemn the sin and convict the sinner, hopefully resulting in repentance. That conviction may be combatted, suppressed or ignored, but the conviction will be there. That is one of the Holy Spirit’s main functions and gifts to the Body. The lack of repentance is more a sign of unregenerated hearers than problems with the pastor. And what kind of believer could sit under a pastor they could not give a rat’s rear end about what he says?

Well, re: the whole “rat’s rear end” thing, I was really thinking of person who attends a church, and might possibly be a member, who hears a pastor condemning certain sins from the pulpit. If it is a sin a person has struggled for a while, I don’t believe in a lot of instances it’s a matter of a person just willfully choosing to sin. There are a lot of factors that cause people to do certain things, and hearing another sermon will probably not help them.

Now, I do agree the Holy Spirit convicts people of sin, and I don’t think He really needs our help in that area. We can talk about sin and its effects, but we can’t make people repent. That is a matter between them and God.

This whole thing gets down to a larger issue, though, in my mind. It comes down to the fact the a lot of Christians just view the Gospel as a matter of what Dallas Willard calls “sin management”. It make it a very one-dimensional thing. So what happens is we worry very much about sins of commission, but very little about sins of omission. Ironically, it seems that God just as upset (or possibly even more) with the Israelites for the things they didn’t do as much as the things they did. The mission of the church isn’t to produce perfect Christians, it’s to serve the World.

83   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:20 pm

It make it a very one-dimensional thing. So what happens is we worry very much about sins of commission, but very little about sins of omission. Ironically, it seems that God just as upset (or possibly even more) with the Israelites for the things they didn’t do as much as the things they did. The mission of the church isn’t to produce perfect Christians, it’s to serve the World.

You mean like omitting preaching the Gospel to every creature vs. feed them, clothe them house them and in doing so you are demonstrating the gospel?…(just not preaching it as commanded).

84   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:21 pm

But aren’t they made that way, BTT?

Your justification of your lifestyle is rife with hypocrisy.

The truth of the matter is that since pedophilia actually exists on top of a person’s underlying sexuality, and since pedophiles usually don’t discriminate between the genders of the children they molest, it is considered a psychosexual disorder.

Unlike homosexuality.

FAIL again.

85   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:25 pm

Yes, but biological characteristics don’t have morality.
(And yes, ALL the science is pointing in the direction of sexuality being biological. ALL of it.)

So, sex of which you disapprove does not have biological and moral roots?

Sounds like SOMEONE is trying to justify his behavior, and moralize OTHERS’ behavior.

And no, your pals in NAMBLA are not heterosexual….its the man/boy love thing…get it?

86   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:28 pm

You mean like omitting preaching the Gospel to every creature vs. feed them, clothe them house them and in doing so you are demonstrating the gospel?…(just not preaching it as commanded).

Actually the Gospel is incomplete with if either the proclamation or demonstration is missing. So both conservatives and liberals could be equally guilty of sins of omission, in my opinion. Although it seems more common to see those who are willing to talk about something instead of doing it, rather than the other way around.

87   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:32 pm

I don’t know Phil,

I see lots of people doing it, and many are quite genuine in their motives, but they would rather give a buck or send some help or even pay to have someone else do it than themselves.

I also see Oprah, Bill Gates, and others giving billions of dollars believing they are gaining God’s favor, yet they do not preach the Gospel.

I agree. We need both and. And it is so rare.

88   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:35 pm

So, sex of which you disapprove does not have biological and moral roots?

If that’s what you think I said, then your reading comprehension levels are very low.

And no, your pals in NAMBLA are not heterosexual

Yes, but NAMBLA doesn’t account for all pedophiles, or even most of them. If you’ve ever watched that “To Catch A Predator” show, you’ll notice that the great majority of them are creepy middle-aged men looking for young girls. And really, it’s kind of retarded of you to keep mentioning NAMBLA, since no one I’ve ever met has ever even met one of their members. I mean, seriously? The ONLY time I ever hear about them is from scared right-wing conservatives. In fact, I didn’t even know what it was before that sad sack Peter LaBarbera posted one of his “alerts” about them. NAMBLA is something your people use to scare yourselves into swooning stupors over Teh Ghey Menace, but in the real world, they’re roundly condemned by all, including the gay community.

PB, your knowledge of the world is very poor. I understand that. I would suggest that you spend some of your time in front of the computer expanding your mind, rather than reading the latest incoherent ramblings from Grant Swank or whoever it is you admire.

89   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:38 pm

Wow… lots of interesting things going on in this thread. Lets start addressing some of them:

Why do the homosexuals feel the need to make me agree with their homosexuality?

They don’t – they just don’t want to be hated, and the do want to be treated with dignity and respect.

Why do they feel the need to have PACs and march in the streets?

The same reason anyone else creates PACs and does marches. To influence decisions.

Why should they receive more rights than me

Huh? What extra rights are they asking for? Name one.

When did homosexuals become a race or a group that has to come under the equal protection act?

When they were discriminated in evil ways.

90   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:38 pm

What do you do with your NAMBLA pals?

Huh?

If you don’t see the difference between NAMBLA and adult homosexuals who are attracted to other adults, there is nothing else to say to you.

91   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:42 pm

So, sex of which you disapprove does not have biological and moral roots?

Huh? Is this referring to the NAMBLA thing again?

It is very, very, very simply.

Adult homosexuality occurs between consenting adults. NAMBLA does not.

End of story.

If you want to have a real discussion on sexuality, lets do that, but if you are going to bring in unrelated crap like NAMBLA in order for you to justify your bashing of gay people, this conversation will obviously not be worth the time.

92   Chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:42 pm

John Hughes,

Thanks for your response I would just ask one question.

Do you struggle with any sin that you know is against scripture?

93   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:43 pm

I also see Oprah, Bill Gates, and others giving billions of dollars believing they are gaining God’s favor, yet they do not preach the Gospel.

Where do they talk about giving money in order to gain God’s favor?

94   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 1:43 pm

Phil,

I agree with a lot of the content of your last post.

Now, I do agree the Holy Spirit convicts people of sin, and I don’t think He really needs our help in that area. We can talk about sin and its effects, but we can’t make people repent. That is a matter between them and God.

“We can’t make people repent” – How true. But **one** of the things (and I would say the predominate means) the Holy Spirit uses to bring conviction and repentance is the Word which must be either read or heard. Further, there are many Scriptures regarding the need for exhortation and rebuking. But agreed the inner workings of the soul are the Spirit’s domain. However, God does use humans as a means to deliver His message.

“sin management”. . . a very one-dimensional thing.

Agreed. Balance is needed for a healthy spirituality.

The mission of the church isn’t to produce perfect Christians, it’s to serve the World.

Well, I would say the mission of the Church encompasses many things with training in righteousness being one of them. But I agree that is not its only mission. Balance is required for a healthy body.

95   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 1:45 pm

BTT: FAIL again.

Try grading on a curve next time.

96   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:47 pm

dave, this is what BTT said

Yes, but biological characteristics don’t have morality.
(And yes, ALL the science is pointing in the direction of sexuality being biological. ALL of it.)

So…NAMBLA homosexuals like having sex with boys, and now that is NOT biological? I thought biological characteristics don’t have morality?

No one has ever proven a gay gene, but you say you were made that way HUH? Can not a NAMBLA homosexual claim the very same thing?

Is sexuality biological or isn’t it? What is perversion and what is normal? If you follow your logic, it is whatever you feel good about.

97   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 1:51 pm

Chris: Do you struggle with any sin that you know is against scripture?

Yes. Of course. Pornography for one just for the sake of transparancy.

98   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:52 pm

I really don’t get your obsession with bringing NAMBLA into this.

But to answer your question, I guess it could be possible for adult males to be biologically attracted to boys.

But the HUGE difference is in the action. Adult homosexuals get involved with other adult, consenting homosexuals.

It is not really difficult to understand.

99   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 1:56 pm

So, dave, if this is possible, then is it wrong?

Make a moral judgement, if you dare!

Then, tell me why it is wrong. What is the moral backdrop for your judgement?

100   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 1:58 pm

Oh god, pastorboy, read ALL the words, not just some of them. Let me do this slowly for you. I said:

Yes, but biological characteristics don’t have morality.
(And yes, ALL the science is pointing in the direction of sexuality being biological. ALL of it.)

Now, nowhere in there did I say that pedophilia fell within the normal range of sexuality. In fact, several posts later, I said the following:

The truth of the matter is that since pedophilia actually exists on top of a person’s underlying sexuality, and since pedophiles usually don’t discriminate between the genders of the children they molest, it is considered a psychosexual disorder.

Unlike homosexuality.

Ta-da! It’s very, very simple — according to the experts, homosexuality, heterosexuality, bisexuality, are sexual orientations, whereas pedophilia is a psychosexual disorder which exists on top of a person’s underlying sexuality.

Got it? If you need to, I can copy and paste my reply a few more times.

Can not a NAMBLA homosexual

NAMBLA aren’t just “another kind” of homosexual, John! Get this through your thick skull!

No one has ever proven a gay gene, but you say you were made that way

Yes, because I pay attention to the science, and science is the fundamentalist’s worst enemy, because it’s always more complex than you people try to make it. The fact that a single gay gene hasn’t been isolated in no way “proves” that sexuality isn’t inborn. To suggest so betrays a preschooler’s understanding of genetics. However, ALL the science points to sexuality being biological in nature, in some way. Whether it’s a single factor or a confluence of factors, they don’t know yet. A recent study finds that male homosexuality actually seems to have an evolutionary purpose, in that there seems to be a correlation between fecund women and gay male siblings. It’s a genetic principle called “sexual antagonism,” wherein a characteristic, passed onto the female, actually contributes to the very perpetuation of the species, whereas when it’s passed to the male, it seems to correlate with homosexuality. The same genes — just reacting different ways in the two genders.

But you see, PB, being able to rattle off things like that requires actually being a curious human being, rather than shoving aside any information that doesn’t fit within the constraints of one’s narrow-minded uneducated worldview.

Where do they talk about giving money in order to gain God’s favor?

In pastorboy’s mind.

101   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 2:00 pm

BTT: Focus on the potty language, seriously. Because that’s a great way to distract oneself from losing an argument.

Excuse me BTT. You were the one calling people “rude as hell”. I was pointing out you are hyper-rude on your web site to those with whom you disagree (and by reference the rank hipocracy). How is that a distraction from the argument?

FAILED again!

I think **we** have run our course on this particular talkback and sorry to disappoint you but I don’t hate you in the least. Can you say the same?

102   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:05 pm

I don’t hate anyone. I hate ignorance.

But actually, I would clarify something. I’m only rude to people on my blog when their first comment is an insult. That’s my policy. When (on the rare occasions) a person comes in with a legitimate disagreement and backs up their disagreement with facts, I will have a discussion with them. But yes, when a person comes in like an idiot and starts throwing uneducated insults, I just make fun of them and/or abuse them, because they’re idiots. Got it?

103   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 2:05 pm

Now, nowhere in there did I say that pedophilia fell within the normal range of sexuality

I would like to remind you that only recently did homosexuality come off that list…you know..the DSM III..

Maybe thats why your people march in the streets and have PAC’s to make people believe that your brand of perversion is normal and acceptable, even biological, when even a kindergartners knowledge of biology knows that two men just don’t fit together. It just ain’t natural.

Gee, I was not even raised in a Christian home, and NOBODY had to teach me that!

104   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:12 pm

I would like to remind you that only recently did homosexuality come off that list…you know..the DSM III..

Almost forty years ago?

Maybe thats why your people march in the streets and have PAC’s to make people believe that your brand of perversion is normal and acceptable, even biological, when even a kindergartners knowledge of biology knows that two men just don’t fit together. It just ain’t natural.

Except that all the scientific research says your point of view is puerile and uninformed?

More about our “PAC”s again. You must be really scared of the PAC’s. Do you know what’s actually changing the public opinion in this country? It’s not marches or PAC’s. The great majority of Americans now believe gay people should have our relationships recognized under the law because the great majority of Americans now realize they know gay people, and that what they’ve been told by people like you over the years is just a pack of sad, scared lies.

The world is much more complex than the black/white image you’ve made of it. I feel bad for you, actually. I imagine that you’re missing out on a lot of life by boxing yourself into such a narrow, hateful, little boy’s box.

105   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:14 pm

Make a moral judgement, if you dare!

Okay… pedophilia is wrong.

Now what is your point?

As for why it is wrong? Because it involves minors who do not have the ability to truly consent.

Again… it really isn’t difficult to understand.

Pedophiles do not equate with homosexuals. At all.

106   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:14 pm

You must be really scared of the PAC’s.

No fundamentalists have any of those scary PACs.

Oh wait…

107   Chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:18 pm

Yes. Of course. Pornography for one just for the sake of transparancy.

John,

You’re vulnerability is to be commended. Thank you for sharing.

So the next question is (as you have probably guessed) why don’t you stop? Scripture is pretty plain on lust.

108   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 2:19 pm

2008-1973….hmmmmm 35 years.

Not quite 40 but close enough.

And since that has happened? AIDS through the roof- oh its not a homosexual disease you say..No longer. But at the beginning it was exclusively a homosexual disease. According to scientists, either Monkey A bit human B, or the human was committing indecent acts with the monkey. He then passed it on to his male sex partner…and so on…and so on…and so on.

And because of sexual perversion, (homosexual, heterosexual, and bestial) millions die in Africa and worldwide due to AIDs every year.

Well it doesn’t hurt anybody…two consenting adults…

Tell it to the AIDS orphans in Haiti and Africa.
And it doesn’t hurt anybody you say?

109   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:20 pm

The great majority of Americans now believe gay people should have our relationships recognized under the law because the great majority of Americans now realize they know gay people, and that what they’ve been told by people like you over the years is just a pack of sad, scared lies.

Evan, this is one thing that you do that really does undermine your credibility. When you just shoot of these types of things without anything to back it up, it doesn’t help your cause.

At best it would be a 50/50 issue, but from the actual polls I’ve seen it looks more like 55% oppose gay marriage with 45% supporting. Somewhat ironically, it looks like 55% oppose a federel marriage amendment as well.

In any case, it’s clear that it’s not true that a “great majority of Americans” want to allow gay marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble.

110   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:23 pm

Actually, the origins of AIDS are far more complex than you suggest.

But here’s the thing: it could have just as easily entered the Western world (because in Africa, it’s decidedly not a gay disease) through heterosexuals. Your use of AIDS to scapegoat gay people is offensive at best, and again, petulantly stupid.

But I suppose it makes sense when you have a worldview that probably believes that natural disasters are a judgment from God, rather than the result of plate tectonics, weather patterns, and ocean currents.

111   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:25 pm

At best it would be a 50/50 issue, but from the actual polls I’ve seen it looks more like 55% oppose gay marriage with 45% supporting. Somewhat ironically, it looks like 55% oppose a federel marriage amendment as well.

Aha, Phil, read what I said more closely.

The current public support for the word “marriage” isn’t as strong, but the latest polls suggest that public support for legal recognition of gay relationships (which is what I said in the first place) has a 65-70% approval rating.

112   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 2:32 pm

BTT,

You have your sources, I have mine.

And yes, I do believe that God is sovereign. I do believe He created the earth in seven literal days. And he created Adam and Eve, giving them the ability and the command to reproduce. Two different people, sexes, etc, complementing and fitting one another.

Call me stupid, if you please. I have done my research, I have tasted and seen that the Lord God is good.

113   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 2:46 pm

So the next question is (as you have probably guessed) why don’t you stop? Scripture is pretty plain on lust.

Absolutely Chris! But the key word is “struggle”. IOW I agree with Scripture that it is a sin. I do not justify it. I do not tell myself and others that it is a victomless sin. I do not say God understands or it is the way He made me so it must be OK. I listen to what Scripture has to say about it. I hate it as God hates it. I do listen to the conviction of the the Holy Spirit and agree with Him. I do see many victories, but yes, sometimes I still fail. I see the grace of God and feel His love in the struggle. But again, I don’t have the attitude that because it’s a part of me and I didn’t ask for it, it’s just the way it is it must therefore be right. Scripture is the yardstick not my feelings or human reasoning. My personal failures do not invalidate the truth. It is I who fail and not the Word of God. But the same Word that condemns the sin instructs that where sin abounds so does grace even more and that’s what keeps me going.

114   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 2:53 pm

BTT – what you don’t understand is that it matters not one whit what the world thinks. Opinion polls mean nothing from an eternal viewpoint. 50 years ago it would have been 99.99% against. Who can say what it will be 50 years hince? The pendulum of public opinion is a very fickle thing indeed. It swings this way and that and in the end and is a validation of nothing. But God’s Word abides forever. Today is the day of salvation BTT, be reconciled to God.

115   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:57 pm

You have your sources, I have mine.

Yes, but yours are laughed at by the real professionals.

Not every issue has two sides, PB. Many, like this one, has one, and then there are the flat-earth wingnuts.

I do believe He created the earth in seven literal days. And he created Adam and Eve, giving them the ability and the command to reproduce. Two different people, sexes, etc, complementing and fitting one another.

And, you see, those are your beliefs, and I think they’re insane, but you’re entitled to them. Here’s the thing — they have no bearing or credibility in this conversation. Zero. We’re talking about science, psychology, and civil rights in a secular society. The fact that you believe (with no empirical evidence, which is fine, that’s what faith is) that God created the earth in seven days, a few thousand years ago, despite all evidence to the contrary is your business, but it doesn’t past the laugh-test as a valid viewpoint in this particular discussion. In the real, secular, scientific world, if you want your opinions to be respected, you have to be able to argue them from a facts-based perspective, not an “I believe it because of my religion” perspective. This is why your side is losing the “culture wars” (which your side created, haha). Because, aside from your interpretations of your book, you have nothing. The science denies your side, psychology denies your side, facts on the ground deny your side, human experience denies your side…

So here’s the thing. People on your side construct all kinds of fake research to try to add some sort of respectability to your viewpoints. Entire organizations exist to pretend there’s a legitimate “other side” in these conflicts. Scientists and researchers continually have to hold groups like Focus on the Family accountable for deliberately distorting their research, in order to erect a facade of credibility.

But it’s just not there.

I have tasted and seen that the Lord God is good.

You tasted the Lord? I’d stop that if I were you…

116   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 2:58 pm

Today is the day of salvation BTT, be reconciled to God.

*eyerolls*

117   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 3:11 pm

BTT

You say I am a flat earth wingnut?

I would say that you are a plain and simple wingnut. But you are clearly a man of faith, for, if you were not you could not believe in the psuedo science of evolution. Only a fool could look at the organization an hierarchy of this world and deny that there is an all-powerful creator. Funnier yet, BTT, is the belief that order comes from chaos!

But you do have to believe in pseudo-science to be able to justify your brand of sin. I get that. Whatever allows you to sleep at night.

I echo John, be reconciled to God.

118   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 3:22 pm

I would say that you are a plain and simple wingnut. But you are clearly a man of faith, for, if you were not you could not believe in the psuedo science of evolution. Only a fool could look at the organization an hierarchy of this world and deny that there is an all-powerful creator. Funnier yet, BTT, is the belief that order comes from chaos!

Oh, my god, folks, he doesn’t even understand evolution.

Also? Just because you don’t like it doesn’t give you license to pretend that something that is accepted as scientific fact by ALL REAL SCIENTISTS is “pseudo-science.”

I mean, my god.

This is utterly pathetic. I mean, a plurality of Evangelicals have come to their senses and realized that their faith can be reconciled with every scientific discovery of the last 200 years, but I absolutely marvel at people like you. Ignorance, indeed, must be a special kind of tortured bliss, to believe that all real science is “pseudo-science,” black is white, up is down…I mean, seriously, I think you have jumped the shark more than any person I’ve ever met in my entire life, and I grew up Evangelical, so it’s not that I’m not used to Christian viewpoints, but…wow…the sheer ignorance that you seem to be comfortable with…

Stunning!

119   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 3:33 pm

I understand evolution perfectly well.

It is the ultimate fairy tale for grownups!

Evolution: You have a huge explosion of matter and gasses which are eternal.

Creation: There is a God, who is eternal, and He created matter and gasses

Evolution: The gasses and matter in the explosion somehow cooled and formed perfect round spheres that began floating in space around a small insignificant star.

Creation: God planned and organized the universe out of invisible matter. He placed the planets in an exact orbit, and chose earth to inhabit with His creation.

Evolution: Over billions of years, the spheres cooled. From pure chance, hydrogen and oxygen combined together in such a perfect mixture that they formed the first molecule of water. Over eons of time, more of these molecules were formed. Unfortunately, since gravity had not yet evolved, most of the water free floated in space where it dissolved. All of a sudden, the rock free floating in space thought: I need an atmosphere” and over billions of years the atmosphere and the force of gravity were formed. Now, all we need is hydrogen and oxygen to combine again in the exact same manner…..

Creation: In the beginning God created.

I could continue, but as any logical adult could see, it is indeed a fairy tale.

120   Nick    http://www.ruminatingrants.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 3:42 pm

Anybody notice that the only apparent difference between John Chisham and Evan is that John claims to follow Christ? They both act like assholes to people who disagree with them.

121   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 3:49 pm

Nope, you don’t understand evolution at all.

I have a recommendation for you, John, since you seem to like to comment on blogs.

Go to http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula and start commenting there. See how long it takes before they turn you into mincemeat.

Oh, and Nick, I’m a Christ-follower…I just don’t happen to go in for the full “fairy-tale,” as John would call it. I think that, by all accounts, the Christ was somebody to model our lives after, and that his teachings were profound. However, I can’t reconcile the fact that the supposed Garden of Eden story happened about a thousand years after the Sumerians invented glue with the idea of the Bible as the true end-all, be-all of the universe, when the universe, as we now know it, is so much more vast than what is contained within that story.

122   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 3:54 pm

I’m a Christ-follower…I just don’t happen to go in for the full “fairy-tale,” as John would call it. I think that, by all accounts, the Christ was somebody to model our lives after, and that his teachings were profound. However, I can’t reconcile the fact that the supposed Garden of Eden story happened about a thousand years after the Sumerians invented glue with the idea of the Bible as the true end-all, be-all of the universe, when the universe, as we now know it, is so much more vast than what is contained within that story.

Then, BTT, you are following a false Christ.

Hey Nick, thats your opinion. I don’t think BTT is an whatever you called him. I disagree with him, I think he is wrong, but he really isn’t a jerk about it.

123   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 4:03 pm

Then, BTT, you are following a false Christ.

No, my interpretation and conception of Christ is different from yours, and that’s okay.

124   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 4:10 pm

BTT: Oh, and Nick, I’m a Christ-follower…I just don’t happen to go in for the full “fairy-tale,” as John would call it.

200 years or so ago science believed in spontaneous generation, believed diseases were caused by humors, etc. etc.

Just 60 years ago science thought and taught the Milky Way galaxy was the sum total of the universe.

Seemingly everyday with new scientific discoveries you read “the science books are going to have to be rewritten on this one”. What is science “fact” today is made laughable by the discoveries of the next and in this shifting sand you place your trust and stake your eternal destiny. Like I said, Evan, be reconciled to God. Today is the day. (And this has plea NOTHING to do with the sexual orientation issue).

125   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 4:19 pm

Here’s the thing, though, John. What you say is true, except that it fails to take into account the explosion of information and the ability to gather information in the past century. So while it may be true that 200 years ago, science believed in spontaneous generation, it’s a logical fallacy to use that as a “proof” that science is just “always being rewritten.” While many important scientific discoveries were indeed made before that time, there has been nothing that compares to the amassing of information that’s occurred recently. The subjects we’ve been discussing today fall clearly within the realm of evidence building upon evidence building upon evidence, with global collaboration. You mention that 60 years ago, we thought the Milky Way was the sum total of the universe…that may be true, but new discoveries didn’t negate the knowledge of the Milky Way, they expanded on that knowledge. That’s what’s happening now, at a more feverish pace than ever before. That’s why it’s completely sensible to put one’s trust in the scientific process, in the year 2008.

And please stop with the “Today is the day” garbage. It’s creepy, sleazy, and maudlin.

126   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 4:49 pm

Evolution: You have a huge explosion of matter and gasses which are eternal.

Matter and gasses would have formed later after a massive expansion of energy. Being an engineer the big bang theory makes a lot of sense as a method to create by. Things are made trough processes – which we call engineering. Why could God not choose the process of an expanding universe to create space, galaxies, stars and planets? Why could He not choose to use some process like evolution to create biological living creatures? The Bible clearly states that God did create and why He did create. As to the how we should look at science to figure that out. The how does not make the why or by whom invalid.

On the gay issue I would like to say that the church, Christians, should start looking for opportunities to serve gay people, love them, accept them and leave more room for the conviction of the Holy Spirit.

As for transparency… Thank you John Hughes. I know the struggle.

127   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 4:52 pm

BTT. You’re middle name wouldn’t “Nimrod” would it? :-)

God’s Offer of Grace to a self admitted agnostic = garbage, creepy, sleazy and maudlin. As a hero of mine once said: “Well allrighty then!”

You have a great day!

128   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:02 pm

God’s Offer of Grace to a self admitted agnostic = garbage, creepy, sleazy and maudlin.

Yes…

You see, Christians such as yourself always seem to fancy yourselves the first to share the message. Yet, the reality, for me and for so many others is that we’ve heard it, a million times, in a million ways. I used to be a devout Christian. Christianity was the mask I used to hide behind, immersing myself in doctrine, blah blah blah. I know the altar calls, the rationale, the sales pitches, the maudlin tricks people use to get people to sign up for the network marketing scheme of Evangelical Christianity: “If you died tomorrow, do you know, with 100% certainty where you’re going?” Why, no, I don’t. Back when I was caught up in Evangelical Christianity, I never saw the flaw in that logic. I had to find my way out to realize that wow, nobody, if they’re being honest, can actually answer that question in the affirmative. We can deeply immerse into religious belief, into dogma, into faith, and that may be the opiate we need to get us through this messed up thing called life. We can speak the language of the faith so fluently that we tell ourselves that yes, we know that answer, but the truth is that, in the deepest, darkest corners of our minds and hearts, where we are most immune from the outside influences of the world, no one knows.

Reason, deep thought, deep prayer, and honesty led me out of that practice and that mindset.

Here’s the thing — if a traditional interpretation of Christianity is what feeds you, then I want you to be strong in that. What I cannot abide is people believing that they have all the answers when I know that they don’t, people believing that it’s their right/duty to impose their answers on me, when I’ve already searched those answers and found them wanting.

I do notice, though, that rare is the Evangelical who is capable of seeing how rude “witnessing” is, who is capable of seeing the rolled eyes and dirty looks, the “oh, dear, I’ve heard this a thousand times, can you please spare me?” expressions. I didn’t see it when I was caught up in it. Man, I was on fire, as they say. I was also an insufferable human being. But we all pray and grow, sometimes in different directions. What’s insulting is when people of certain traditions suggest that, because you’re not growing in the same direction, that your growth is “false” or “untrue.” Because, again, deep down, no one knows.

Anyway.

129   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 6:06 pm

I have all the answers.

130   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 6:18 pm

Evan: You see, Christians such as yourself always seem to fancy yourselves the first to share the message. Yet, the reality, for me and for so many others is that we’ve heard it, a million times, in a million ways.

I know that Evan. You have shared that on CRN.info before. But you know what? Today is the day of Salvation.

Hebrews 4:7-17 – He again fixes a certain day, “Today,” saying through David after so long a time just as has been said before,
“TODAY IF YOU HEAR HIS VOICE,
DO NOT HARDEN YOUR HEARTS.”
For if Joshua had given them rest, He would not have spoken of another day after that. So there remains a Sabbath rest for the people of God. For the one who has entered His rest has himself also rested from his works, as God did from His. Therefore let us be diligent to enter that rest, so that no one will fall, through following the same example of disobedience. For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are open and laid bare to the eyes of Him with whom we have to do.

131   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:22 pm

Evan,

I promise I will not share the gospel with you. I respect your right, your free will to not believe.

Jerry

132   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:23 pm

Oh, my god, folks, he doesn’t even understand evolution.

Shocking.

133   John Hughes    
September 18th, 2008 at 6:23 pm

Rick: I have all the answers.

Me too, it’s “42″.

134   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:25 pm

I have all the answers.

Well played.

I promise I will not share the gospel with you. I respect your right, your free will to not believe.

Thank you.

But you know what? Today is the day of Salvation.

Okay, now it’s getting a little bit…just as creepy as before, but with a healthy dose of Asperger’s.

135   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:26 pm
Oh, my god, folks, he doesn’t even understand evolution.

Shocking.

He said as he gave the computer screen his best deadpan book while wondering if it would make him feel better to slam his head on the desk a few times…

:)

136   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:27 pm

AGH!

Deadpan *look.

How “L” became “B” I have no idea.

137   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:29 pm

How “L” became “B” I have no idea.

They are kinda’ close on the keyboard. Kinda’.

They are as close as some around here are to understanding evolution.

138   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 18th, 2008 at 6:34 pm

I wasn’t aware I was asdf-ing in my bedroom and jkl;-ing in outer space.

139   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 7:14 pm

The New Testament doesn’t make evolution a focus. I believed in evolution for twoyears after I was saved, so it isn’t a real big deal. I, as an amateur astronomer, cannot believe the earth is 5000 years old.

Here is a question:

I have seen the explosion of a supernova that is several million light years away. Even youg creationists don’t argue the distance. Why would God create that explosion in the light stream when in fact it did not happen?

140   nc    
September 18th, 2008 at 7:36 pm

Rick,

In other words:

Why would God lie?

;)

141   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 8:11 pm

Exactly. Why do we continue to put God in some contrived box? It was all of Him and continues all by Him, so one day He will explain the methodology to us if it still that important to know. :cool:

142   Joe C    http://joe4gzus.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 8:18 pm

Dave,

The snarkiness of your comments aside… :)

What about the people who have PhD’s in that subject matter and are the young earth creationist types? Do they understand the modern understanding of NDE correctly?

Most assuredly they do.

So then what? (and “well if they understood it they would accept it” is a non-answer logical fallacy, I think)

I always wonder that.

Joe

143   Joe C    http://joe4gzus.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 8:18 pm

Oh PS

Evan, you know you’re a jerk lol. Stop playin :)

144   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
September 18th, 2008 at 10:56 pm

What about the people who have PhD’s in that subject matter and are the young earth creationist types? Do they understand the modern understanding of NDE correctly?

A couple of responses.

- There are many PhDs, in many different fields, who are wrong every day.
- There are many more PhDs that are not young earth creationist types than are.

I think that people can understand things “correctly” and still come up with wrong interpretations.

145   Joe C    http://joe4gzus.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 11:50 pm

Exactly.

146   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 4:05 am

I have seen the explosion of a supernova that is several million light years away. Even youg creationists don’t argue the distance. Why would God create that explosion in the light stream when in fact it did not happen?

Rick, you’re going to break somebody’s brain.

:)

147   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 4:07 am

- There are many more PhDs that are not young earth creationist types than are.

In the qualified fields (as in…the Discovery institute and that kind of stuff…when they release lists of “scientists” that approve of their work, inevitably, it’s packed with people whose “scientific credentials” are kind of a stretch), it’s way over 99% who accept evolution.

148   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 7:52 am

Can we please drop the evolution stuff and get back to the sex talk?

149   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 7:55 am

PS to Evan, with all due respect and without any attempt to woo you back to Jesus, acceptance doesn’t equate to truth.

A fine example is that the majority of the world rejects Jesus of Nazareth as the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Doesn’t mean they are right or that their beliefs are true. I suppose the same is equally true for those of us who do accept Jesus.

But seriously, let’s get back to the sex. That is much more compelling conversation.

150   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 8:01 am

Mor secks!

151   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 9:33 am

Speaking of evolution, sex, and homosexuality:

Why would creatures decide to have sex, and why would they develop such different and uniquely designed sexual organs to complement one another, and then use them in an unnatural way?

I mean, if evolution is true, then why would you create more mouths to feed? Why increase the competition? And when did the creatures decide to stop just splitting in two and/or reproducing asexually?

And if you say reproduction is best for the survival of the species, then why would a group decide to engage in a useless activity with members of their own sex, using energy that could be better spent in procreation and in survival? Sex, after all, if we are just animals is just recreation and all about self and the pleasure you receive. In many animals, sex is painful, and not enjoyable! When did we evolve to a point that sex is just recreational?

And I am still searching for that missing link. I could be $10,000 richer.

152   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 10:14 am

She’s also seeking other qualities from her first lover. “I’m looking for intelligence and an overall nice person,” said Dylan.

Yeah, one of those good people who pay for sex, fornicate outside of the marriage bed. Yeah, one of those guys.

153   Nick    http://www.ruminatingrants.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 10:33 am

Maybe if she was from North Dakota? No?

154   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 10:39 am

Nick,

I never meant what you claimed, it was innocent, trying to be complementary in a stupid foot in the mouth sort of way. I sure am glad God forgives, its clear that you just use peoples failures to exploit some sort of lack in your life. I will pray for you.

155   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 10:51 am

I sure am glad God forgives, its clear that you just use peoples failures to exploit some sort of lack in your life. I will pray for you.

Really and truly did you just say that to him? So you’ll be taking down all your crap about Tim, right?

156   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 10:56 am

Tim who?

And what defecate is that?

157   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 10:58 am

Yeah, I’ll take it down, when all of your buddies take down the stuff about Ingrid, Ken’s church growth meter, and Nick takes down his fallacious site. Yep, then I will take down the truth about Tim.

158   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 11:02 am

Oh So we can paraphrase you to say,

I sure am glad God forgives, and we should too as long as everyone else does. I, John Chisham will allow God’s forgiveness to transcend through my life when I feel it should. However, whenever anyone puts up something I said and let’s it sit on it’s own, I will run like a little child to try and spiritualize it.

There that looks more accurate to your actions.

John,
Your hypocrisy stinks.

159   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 11:05 am

Whatever, Joe.

I re-read that article on Tim, and it was mostly about the poem. I think I will edit it to make it a general opinion piece, and take off the updated postscript.

Regardless of what you and your hypocrite friends do.

160   Pastorman    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 11:08 am

Regardless of what you and your hypocrite friends do.

Well, good for you John. Coming from you a man who has shown so much integrity here and online in general that really hurts, you calling my friends hypocrites. I mean that, no any sarcasm you detect isn’t really sarcasm. I mean, a person of your astounding integrity will no doubt pick up on that. I may need to see my therapist about this…

161   Pastorman    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 11:09 am

Whatever, Joe.

Haha, I missed that one. Beautiful. Oh thank you John, you’ve made my day. Now I’m off to listen to some of Ken’s beautiful music. (That’s just for you Chris).

162   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 11:14 am

What do you suggest Joe?

I mean, a hyper spiritual man like yourself should be able to guide me, a man who completely lacks integrity according to your intimate and deep knowledge of who I am. What should I do? I mean, I have already had an apology up there because it offended Tim, so, what else should I do? I am submitting myself to your clear moral authority in all things blog. After observing your dealings with Julie and Jerry, I know that you are the most righteous and the person most full of integrity here.

Please, tell me what to do Joe. Then send Erica to back it up. I really need your council, oh grand poobah of CRN.info.

163   Break The Terror    http://breaktheterror.wordpress.com
September 19th, 2008 at 11:15 am

I mean, if evolution is true, then why would you create more mouths to feed? Why increase the competition? And when did the creatures decide to stop just splitting in two and/or reproducing asexually?

Because evolution’s just not as simple as you expect it to be!

Why would creatures decide to have sex, and why would they develop such different and uniquely designed sexual organs to complement one another, and then use them in an unnatural way?

Ah, with evolution, you have to lose your definition of “unnatural.” What may be “unnatural” to you may indeed (as late studies are showing) serve a perfectly natural evolutionary purpose.

And I am still searching for that missing link.

No. And all that missing link stuff is really overblown anyway.

Anyway, you’re asking a lot of really weird questions that aren’t at all pertinent to the discussion. Have you gone to Pharyngula yet? The link I posted for you? You should go.

164   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 11:22 am

The op has changed. Hopefully Joe Martino approves it.

165   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 11:26 am

Jesus went to a Sumerian well?

Were the Sumerians still around? I wonder if he was speaking to Gilgamesh’s wife? Did Hammurabi come also? :)

166   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 11:42 am

“what defecate…”?

ummm….that’s a verb

as in “the act of elimination”.

qualitatively no different than the writing you do on your blog or here, PB.

;)

167   PastorMan    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 11:43 am

LOL. Oh NC. I was going to point that out but I was afraid. :)

168   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 11:44 am

PB,

on a good note…I think your update was a good move.

seriously.

169   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 11:47 am

PB,

re: I mean, a hyper spiritual man like yourself should be able to guide me, a man who completely lacks integrity according to your intimate and deep knowledge of who I am. What should I do? I mean, I have already had an apology up there because it offended Tim, so, what else should I do? I am submitting myself to your clear moral authority in all things blog. After observing your dealings with Julie and Jerry, I know that you are the most righteous and the person most full of integrity here.

I’m assuming this is your attempt at post-modern literary playfulness and irony, right?

Or did you just forget to look in the mirror and try again to take those redwoods growing out of both your eyes?

170   PastorMan    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 11:50 am

What do you suggest Joe?

I mean, a hyper spiritual man like yourself should be able to guide me, a man who completely lacks integrity according to your intimate and deep knowledge of who I am. What should I do? I mean, I have already had an apology up there because it offended Tim, so, what else should I do? I am submitting myself to your clear moral authority in all things blog. After observing your dealings with Julie and Jerry, I know that you are the most righteous and the person most full of integrity here.

Please, tell me what to do Joe. Then send Erica to back it up. I really need your council, oh grand poobah of CRN.info.

When people ask my why I don’t have T.V. anymore I just send them to these writings of yours John. Thank you.
I mean that, thank you.
You are truly a source of much humor for my life.

171   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 11:59 am

to: the pastor who is a man

re:LOL. Oh NC. I was going to point that out but I was afraid

be not afraid. Lo, I am always with thee to “go there”. you may see only one set of footprints, but thou were not alone. For behold, I carried thee.

;)

172   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 12:00 pm

dang,

that should have been: “thou mayest see but only one set…”

lol

173   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 12:12 pm

Or did you just forget to look in the mirror and try again to take those redwoods growing out of both your eyes?

No, I need Joes help. Clearly.

If I were NC, I might suggest Joe was applying for somebody’s job…but that would be blasphemous.

Maybe Iggy can help…oh yeah he is ‘gone’. Perhaps Mandy, NC, or Julie could help me?!

On a different note, Anyone want to place bets on the board as to how long Iggy will be gone? I mean, it seems Joe left and he was back inside of 36 hours!

174   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 12:51 pm

PB,

nice…

the formal structure doesn’t come right out and say it, but the material reality of your comment still enlists the weight of the retort–

nice rhetorical touch…but it’s style over substance…but I get it:

1. frank, direct exposure of what someone is actually doing is wrong and blasphemous when you are the deserved object of critique.

2. Your back-handed implicit rhetoric is in the clear.

Anyway…

As far as help goes, remember this one from your repetoire?

Physician, heal thyself!

That’s all I can give you. I doubt Julie will weigh in…you’ve probably creeped her out enough. ;)

Lastly,

Who cares if people “go and come back”?
Your High Priestess does that crap with whole blogs, much less individual posts, simply to cover her own hiney when she’s out of it, or over the line, or just plain wrong–which really means she should just pack it in for good since that’s a general description of her ministry of anger and fear of difference.

175   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 12:54 pm

That’s it – I’m gone for good.

Alright, I’m back. :lol:

Gone.

Back.

Gone.

Back.

My duplicity is intoxicating!!

176   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 1:29 pm

See Rick,

It goes to show you’re just crap…

LOL…

:)

177   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
September 19th, 2008 at 1:30 pm

John,
Please go read what I said. I said, I would still comment. Reading 101, there friend.

178   Rick Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
September 19th, 2008 at 2:10 pm

“It goes to show you’re just crap…”

The Calvinists call that:

Total Crapavity!

179   nc    
September 19th, 2008 at 2:23 pm

Total Crapavity!!!!!!

THAT is hilarious!!!!