Well, I have recently become a big fan of Mark Driscoll because he preached a sermon from 1 Timothy that was timely and helped me a lot, but today I became a bigger fan of Ingrid Schlueter. Thanks to Ingrid, I now have a couple of very important links to VERY important web pages. (Sex.) Since I don’t read Mr Driscoll’s sex stuff, I would have never known about these links if not for you! Thanks! (Sex.)

On the other hand, I have to sort of chastise Mark Driscoll today. You see, I have steadfastly avoided his ’sex’ talk (sex) because, in my humble opinion, I don’t think there is a place for it in the pulpit. I know, I know. That runs against the grain of many people in my generation, but sex in the pulpit is to me like sex in the oval office: There should be more respect. That’s my opinion and I’m not trying to foist it upon anyone else. (Sex.) Like I said, the best person to ask about sex within a marriage is your spouse. As a preacher, I won’t talk about it; as a parishioner, I don’t want to hear it. But that’s me and it doesn’t have to be anyone else. I don’t preach in Seattle. (Sex.)

That said, Driscoll really let me down today with this post: Spiritual Disciplines: Chastity. Man, Mark, are you nuts? Here’s what Driscoll wrote:

Chastity is the fasting from all sexual activity for the purpose of holiness. The best example of chastity in all of Scripture is Jesus Christ, who never married and never committed any sin, including sexual sin (Hebrews 4:15). As an unmarried man, Jesus is the perfect example of appropriate male-female loving friendships that do not violate propriety or holiness in any way. The Scriptures command God’s people in numerous different verses to remain chaste in both their actions and appearances [...]

I was starting lose confidence in Driscoll, now he goes and writes something like this. I’m wondering if there will be any blog posts from certain bloggers today praising Driscoll for this post? No one even uses the word ‘chas…’…what was it again?…chas…’ oh, nevermind. (Sex.)

Attention Mark Driscoll: Boring! (Sex.)

I’ll let ‘the remnant’ have the last word:

God help you, Mr. Driscoll, and God help the so called Christian leaders who support him in it. You’re no longer going to do it in a corner, because the remnant is blowing the whistle. [My emphasis.]

Mr Driscoll, be afraid. Be very afraid. (Sex) It appears that now, God help you, you have been handed over to the satan. (Sex.)

I’m done.  I’m going home. All this talk about sex is making me anxious.  :)

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1   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 15th, 2009 at 5:07 pm

I pretty much agree with much of Ingid’s sentiments concerning Driscoll, however she doesn’t miss a chance to elevate her status as one on the remnant.

Remnant = the small, righteous band of believers upon whom God has given His blessing to go throught the world and correct everything that God hates.

BTW – it is obvious to me that Mark Driscoll is so far off being a Biblical pastor that anyone who likes him will never be swayed by me. What a relief!

2   Brendt    http://csaproductions.com/blog/
January 15th, 2009 at 5:23 pm

I have a more straight-forward thanks to Ingrid. She’s the one who “introduced” me to Mark in the first place.

I’ll be starting Death by Love this weekend.

3   Christian P    http://www.churchvoices.com
January 15th, 2009 at 5:28 pm

I never thought I’d say this, but the “(sex)” is getting old.

4   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
January 15th, 2009 at 5:28 pm

Brendt,

I have to thank her for primarily introducing me to Rob Bell. I can’t wait until I’m done reading Bishop Willimon so I can rush out and get Velvet Elvis.

I understand fully what you are saying. Sometimes God works in mysterious ways.

jerry

5   Aaron    
January 15th, 2009 at 5:29 pm

Other than Driscoll using coarse (or frank, depending on who you ask) language and doing a sermon on SoS, what other problems does Driscoll have? I hear a lot of criticism about him but they all tend to fall into language or crude jokes.

Does he actually teach wrong theology or how to live wrong? Does he stray from preaching Jesus and toward man’s accomplishments? Does he spend his time tearing down other pastors that don’t necessarily require it? (He tore down Olsteen a long time ago, but Olsteen needs to be torn down)

If someone said that his language and jokes don’t bother them, what other reason could a person give them to drive them from Driscoll?

I know people don’t like that he discussed sex, but they seem to fail to remember that he has preached for a long time, he has covered other books. Did he cover Nehemiah poorly? Ruth poorly? His series on misconceptions? Or even his current series on 1+2 Peter on Trials? Outside of jokes (geniunely funny ones, too) and frank (not coarse, imo) language, where does he fall short?

6   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
January 15th, 2009 at 5:29 pm

Christian,

I agree. I wish Slice would stop talking about it too.

jerry

7   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 15th, 2009 at 5:37 pm

Aaron – he has labeled some of McLaren’s, Bell’s, and Pagitt’s teaching as heresy, and he sometimes refers to a broad section of preachers like me as wingnuts and other labels. He recently called the questioning of some of his exegesis as “sin”.

Oh yea, its more than his teaching on _ _ _ .

:cool:

8   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 15th, 2009 at 6:05 pm

Regal
Emissaries
Mocking
Nonorthodox
Apostates
Needing
Trouncing

9   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 15th, 2009 at 6:05 pm

I have a whole list of people Ken and Ingrid pointed me to… many of them I have become friends with!

One person I was not really interested in was Dallas Willard… until they mentioned him… LOL!

One of the best was Scot McKnight

I have only heard one Driscoll sermon on Ephesians where he towed the company line on a woman’s place…. and have yet to read or listen to much of what he has to say… mostly because he is a Calvinist…

Yet, Mark follows me on Twitter and we are friends on Facebook…

So hopefully I am having an influence on him…. LOL!

iggy

10   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 16th, 2009 at 12:21 pm

I continue to believe Ingrid is obsessed with what the gays are doing. Like a hungy man rummaging through your garbage cans, she seems to seek out ever corner of sin with a special interest in homosexuality.

http://www.sliceoflaodicea.com/obamanations/homosexuals-plan-unprecedented-partying-at-inaugural/

I love these statements:

“God is allowing this to be unleashed because of America’s rebellion and the wickedness within His own church.”

This just in – America BEGAN in rebellion and has never looked back. :)

Also:

“For more information, see Peter LaBarbra’s AmericansforTruth.org website. I cannot link to his site here because of the content.”

So she gives and recommends the website, but she cannot link there because of the content. Someone please tell me the moral difference between giving the website address and linking? In reality, it is a self righteous mirage in one’s own mind.

BTW – there a few gays in a bath house in San Francisco right now, let’s investigate. I do not care what sinners are doing, my calling is lifting up Jesus to all sinners. Being obsessed with the sin of others is the height of self righteousness. She loves using unproductive terms like “Sodomite orgy”, instead of “needy sinners”.

If Ingrid is so concerned about the gay party, who doesn’t she organize a Christian group to go to the inauguration and hand out tracts, provide rides for drunken gay party goers so they do not drive drunk, and pray and exhibit the redemptive love of Jesus Christ. I would be willing to be a part of that even at the expense of my health.

A constant stream of condemning placards about the gay community is unchristian and in fact is a form of voyeuristic recreation.

11   Chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 12:37 pm

Rick,

I read both the Fox News article and the AFT article. I went further and read all the links that AFT posted. Other than the trashy sensationalist photos they posted (not sure why they posted them), the innuendo, and the assumption I could not find any link for what they are saying is going to happen at the Doubletree.

Nothing more than usual suspects getting their choirs whipped up into a frenzy for something that is speculation.

May God have mercy on the front desk employees at the Doubletree and save them from the lunacy of Christianity run amok.

12   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 12:42 pm

it’s not just that one issue, Rick.

It’s everyone else’s sin, perceived or real, that all the imams have an unredemptive fixation on.

Nary a word about the cure…only the disease.

Yeah, that’s the “doctor” I’d want to see.

Can you imagine if you went to a doctor and all she did was go on and on about the spread of your cancer, the intricacies of how exactly it is growing and destroying your body, the molecular composition of the tumors, but never spoke of the hope that, even in the midst of difficult treatment, you have the opportunity to be healed, to live, to flourish?

Having watched people in the fight against cancer up close, I can say that they didn’t care about the details….they just wanted to be given relief from pain and a cure.

they can dress it up all they want about “it’s loving to tell the truth” etc. etc.

all I see is one word:

heartless.

13   Brendt    http://csaproductions.com/blog/
January 16th, 2009 at 12:43 pm

Like a hungy man rummaging through your garbage cans….

Now there’s an unflattering picture, Rick.

Not saying it’s inaccurate, though.

14   pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 1:04 pm

#12 NC
Just as heartless and fruitless (using your illustration) would be to forcefeed a miracle cure for a disease the patient does not know he or she has.

We need a balance; there are many who are unconvinced of their sin and their need for a Savior. This is in large part because the church has become wimpified and unwilling to address sin in hopes of a wider mercy of God to save unrepentant sinners. (see Universalism, seeker sensitive, Emergent)

At the same time, I agree with Rick. It is fruitless to castigate unrepentant sinners from afar. Just as ineffective, however, is to sit around and do nothing, and not warn them. What Rick offered is the Biblical response: have enough compassion to go to these places and warn them if you are truly concerned.

For this same reason, I am going to Spring Break 09 in Panama city Florida: to warn people about the consequence of sin, and to invite them to have their sins forgiven in Jesus Christ.

15   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 16th, 2009 at 1:14 pm

“I am going to Spring Break 09 in Panama city Florida:”

John – your hunger to see people come to Christ, and your willingness to go “into the highways and byways” to compel them to come in, is what I admire about you most. My prayers will be with you, and may the Holy Spirit help people to see Jesus and not you. The greater Christ is lifted up, the greater sinners will see their sin and their need of a Redeemer, through the ministry of the Spirit.

God bless you, brother.

16   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 2:05 pm

PB,

honestly, when you say things about “emergents” not being willing to address sin, I don’t know what you’re talking about.

In my church planting days our church was relationally connected with alot of the “emergent village” folks before there was an “EV”…was basically an emerging church before people started calling them that and there was no failure to name sin as a reality and a problem.

Consistently this is the charge…I don’t see it playing out.

This charge has always fascinated me and many others (Andrew Jones, for example).

I don’t know where the idea comes from…it doesn’t reflect my real life experience within the reality and relationships that make up the emerging church.

I see the naming of sin going on all the time.
And I’m doing it and have always done so.

baffling…

17   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 2:13 pm

NC
The emergent churches that I have experienced allow open fornicators, homosexuals, and people living in sin to be in roles of leadership. I have witnessed it. It is under the name of outreach.

The specific sin Ingrid addresses here is homosexuality. There are those in the emergent movement that deny homosexuality as a sin, and embrace people caught in that sin to be leaders. I am sorry, I have seen it.

I understand it is some, not all. And I know I could list (and should) Evangelicals in that same place. We are all falling short in striking a balance.

18   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 2:14 pm

as far as “many being unconvinced of their sin”…

I don’t see that either.

If anything we worked with communities and groups that were acutely aware that they were pretty screwed up, that they continue to screw up and have screwed themselves…

always talking about regret and wondering why they always seem to do the wrong thing.

I think that’s a great entrance into conversations.

The supposed rejection of “sin” as a problem may occasionally be found in the mouth of some, but I think many of the caricatures of the culture from some pulpits have little to do with where many people live anymore…

I’ll admit, my current grad school setting would be characterized as “liberal” and in 2 years I haven’t heard people shrink back from naming sin.

In fact, my ethics professor just devoted a significant portion of her recent lecture to the problem of moral relativism.

I think what people need to admit is that the move to say “you don’t take sin seriously” is a rhetorical strategy to neutralize your opponent.

It’s dishonest.

Just because somebody doesn’t believe being gay is wrong doesn’t mean they’ve written off the idea of “sin” etc. etc.

they just disagree with you on that point. To then go to this “big picture” abstraction about sin is a classic strategy to marginalize a voice instead of really grappling with the complexities of ethical/theological reasoning with others.

19   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 2:24 pm

Furthermore, I’d want to see the situation of the churches you cite.

And, if we’re honest, your post just brings up the incredibly broken reality of churches that say…

If you’re living together you can’t be a member, but if you’re a greedy, gossipy, angry, self-righteous ass you’re pre-eminently qualified for the board.

Knowing the stats, most churches are happy to have their leaders be secret fornicators…

I just don’t buy it anymore.

20   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 2:31 pm

Just because somebody doesn’t believe being gay is wrong doesn’t mean they’ve written off the idea of “sin” etc. etc.

No, but they have written off that God’s Word is valid today in our context and culture.

And by allowing them to serve as leadership it is a tacit approval of their chosen lifestyle.

That goes for all sin, which it is why it is very important to screen leadership VERY carefully.

but if you’re a greedy, gossipy, angry, self-righteous ass you’re pre-eminently qualified for the board.

Maybe in some churches, but in none that I have been involved in…except one…and that fellow, for being greedy, gossipy, and frankly an ass was asked to leave.

I think you are building a strawman, here. Remember, there are a lot of tares among the wheat, nathan.

21   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 2:35 pm

Another thing,

at my last church, there were people who had been shunned for their sin in the past and they left the church…never helped…these people went and got help elsewhere.

after I came to the church, they longed to return to their “home churches”…they came…I listened to their stories…saw the healing…saw them living with the consequences of their decisions too…and started to empower them to come and serve again.

the God-Squad jihadists raised hell…because of issues that were done and over from 5-10 years prior.

My question was:

Does anyone get to be healed in this church? Does anyone get to experience restoration and the flourishing of the life of JEsus in them, using their gifts and participating in the life of the church.

Some people didn’t care…all they saw was a problem to be rejected, not a person who was growing and becoming like Christ through deep pain and facing the fallout of their sin.

This is the stance I take in dealing with things “in the midst”…standards on sin are great, but the murky complexities of how it plays out as we actively care for those in the middle of the mess only looks simple to self-righteous pricks or the downright lazy.

just my 2 cents…and I’m not saying that’s you, PB.
It’s clear you care about people…I’m talking about what I’ve seen…

22   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 2:44 pm

Does anyone get to be healed in this church? Does anyone get to experience restoration and the flourishing of the life of JEsus in them, using their gifts and participating in the life of the church.
Some people didn’t care…all they saw was a problem to be rejected, not a person who was growing and becoming like Christ through deep pain and facing the fallout of their sin.
This is the stance I take in dealing with things “in the midst”…standards on sin are great, but the murky complexities of how it plays out as we actively care for those in the middle of the mess only looks simple to self-righteous pricks or the downright lazy.

i would hope so, and that is unfortunately not true in enough churches. we do hold on to sin, when we are really called to the ministry of reconciliation and restoration.

There needs to be a time period, an observation period to return to ministry, I think. But during that time, we should be making every effort to restore those folks and build them up so they will not stumble again.

Churches are full of broken people that have admitted they are broken. Unfortunately, there are also those who are broken, but think that they are completely fixed by their good deeds. These modern-day pharisees wreck the mission and the purpose of the church.

I think just as insidious, NC, would be to not be willing to take the risk to confront sin so that people can be restored- no confession, no repentance, then nobody can get restored! What do you think?

23   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 2:44 pm

No, it’s not a strawman, Rick.
I’ve seen it over and over and over.

My hyperbole was meant to demonstrate what people clearly are comfortable with, even if they’d deny it if put in such blatant terms.

No, but they have written off that God’s Word is valid today in our context and culture

NO. NO. and NO. (I can’t say NO enough on this.)

They have a different interpretation of the
issue. This abstraction to their stance on God’s Word is just the backdoor move like with saying “people don’t take sin seriously”.

There are some, I’ll grant, who have just said “forget the Bible”. But the people I know who have come to these conclusions on the issue of being gay are people who have grappled with the texts, the linguistics, etc. etc.

They take the scriptures seriously…they just don’t come to the same conclusions on this point.

24   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 2:50 pm

I think just as insidious, NC, would be to not be willing to take the risk to confront sin so that people can be restored- no confession

I agree…I just don’t think this isn’t happening or being out right rejected on the scale people claim

25   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 2:54 pm

They take the scriptures seriously…they just don’t come to the same conclusions on this point.

So I guess if I decide that robbing a bank and giving the money to the poor is congruent with scripture, I’m OK, since I’m really sincere about it?

After all, I’ve taken the scripture seriously (about caring for the poor), and I just didn’t come to the same conclusions on the subject of theft…

26   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 2:59 pm

Or -

I decide that God’s calling for me is to spread gossip and dissention set up a ‘discernment’ ministry and maliciously attack bring pastors I disagree with to repentence.

I take scripture very seriously – I just don’t come to the same conclusions on this point…

27   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 3:04 pm

PB,
You said

The emergent churches that I have experienced allow open fornicators, homosexuals, and people living in sin to be in roles of leadership.

Are these churches affiliated with Emergent Villiage?
If not, please stop using “emergent” as an adjective without specifics.
What kind of churches are these?

28   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 3:13 pm

What kind of churches are these?

I will not name them specifically, but they are emergent village types, yes.

29   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 3:23 pm

But are they Emergent Villiage, not type, but actual EV.

I’m not trying to be nit-picky, but there is a difference between the adjective “emerging,” and the proper title “Emergent.”

30   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 3:27 pm

of course, village should not be spelled with an extra “i”.

:)

31   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 3:29 pm

I wondered when Chris L would come in…

;)

C’mon, bro. Seriously. You know there’s a world of difference between people “feeling” something and the work of trained scholars who have struggled deeply with the theological, contextual, linguistic issues that present in a text.

I assume you extend charity to your egalitarian or complementarian brothers and sisters who have come to a reasoned conclusion with the texts of Scriptures.

I would want to have a real discussion about 25 with someone who actually believes it…I assume some liberationist theologians might actually be sympathetic in the right situation.

again, c’mon. These things are murkier than we’d like to admit when it comes to thing playing out in real life.

Lying is wrong, but we don’t freak out when people lie to save another’s life. OR kill if they even perceive a threat to their life.

You’re a smart guy, and I think you know what I’m trying to get at. I don’t know if you’re being helpful.

You clearly like to be straight up, so here goes:

You’re the person who, IMHO, uncharitably punished a hardworking restaurant worker for their political beliefs…

God commands you to love, but it seemed your taking seriously the Scripture was a different conclusion there too.

I’m not trying to be an ass, but you just don’t get to take the highground on this…it’d be nice if you came back down to earth and just dialogued on this. PB is doing it, I’d think you could to.

32   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 3:31 pm

Actually, my dig at you Chris, was unnecessarily inflammatory.

I could have invited you to a different mode in a better way.

I apologize.

33   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 3:46 pm

PB,

Personally I think there is much more balance in giving grace mercy and love to others than what many of the people you support do….

In fact I would rather error on the side of Grace, mercy and love than whatever you think is the balance of those things are.

Again, Love is not mamsy pamsy, mercy is sometimes harder than hate and revenge and grace is impossible without the Love of God in us.

Also, so often some think they are in “balance”… and that is what the Christian life is all about… I say most of that is a lie.

Balance?

We cannot live in a compromise of living in the light and darkness… Christianity is not some Yin/Yang religion… to say that it is to have balance misses that really a person who specializes is the one that excels.

Was Jesus a balance of love and hate? Is God a balance of love and hate? No… God is love, Who is also just, but being just is not being hateful.

Christianity is about being out of control and sometimes out of balance as we learn of our sin and grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus.

Again, this balance comes from the idea of eastern mystical religions…

Name one person in the bible that was “balanced”… was Paul, who was compelled by the love of God a balanced man? Did he live in a cottage in the winter and then in the summer go to some foreign country to do mission work? Peter…. yep now that was a balanced man.. “I will defend you to the death!” then the next day he ran off… yep that WAS a balanced man.

The only balance was that of the debt cleared by Jesus at the Cross for our sins. Now it is Life instead of death… Light instead of darkness…

iggy

34   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 3:48 pm

BTW… I see the fruit of this balance in so many ODM’s

They speak the truth and use lies to do it.

They claim they love others, yet slander others in their love.

They claim grace, yet in actuality teach works righteousness.

iggy

35   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 3:54 pm

Jesus knocked me off balance in March of 1998.
And I haven’t recovered since.

Good thoughts, iggy.

36   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 4:08 pm

You are using this out of context of the conversation.

There needs to be a balance in confronting sin with the offer of grace. Most people caught in sin are very satisfied with their position. It is not until they understand that their sin will bring judgement and that their sin has offended God will they be ready for the cure.

The balance in the presentation is all important; if people are not aware of sin, and how God views it, they cannot (or will not) repent. So we must be willing to present both sin and judgement with mercy and grace. And we cannot sit in an ivory tower and share our opinions about others without being willing to actively engage the people who need the message.

37   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:18 pm

PB,

Again… what balance? We are dead in our sins and need the Life of Christ.

In “confronting” sin… that is the Holy Spirits job… not ours.

John 16:7-11

7. But I tell you the truth: It is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Counselor will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you. 8. When he comes, he will convict the world of guilt in regard to sin and righteousness and judgment: 9. in regard to sin, because men do not believe in me; 10. in regard to righteousness, because I am going to the Father, where you can see me no longer; 11. and in regard to judgment, because the prince of this world now stands condemned.

Show me a verse that states WE are to convict others of their sin? So again, your “balance” is from the Yin/Yang school of christianity and is not biblical.

So biblically prove your point… show me the “balance” verse.

iggy

38   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:26 pm

I assume you extend charity to your egalitarian or complementarian brothers and sisters who have come to a reasoned conclusion with the texts of Scriptures.

I do – as I believe that particular issue has a number of (sometimes competing) cultural issues at work, and that you can arrive at a few places on the spectrum of belief via solid scholarship. As you know, I do have a position on the issue of complementarianism/egalitarianism I will vigorously defend (and defend quite testily when someone tries to elevate it as a ‘denial of equal rights’ or some such nonsense). At the same time, I don’t see churches with a more egalitarian position as anathema.

You know there’s a world of difference between people “feeling” something and the work of trained scholars who have struggled deeply with the theological, contextual, linguistic issues that present in a text.

It’s kind of like my senior pastor is fond of saying – “Sincerity has become a cardinal virtue. And while sincerity is a good thing, it is quite possible – and all too common – to be sincerely wrong.”

To this date, I know of no serious biblical scholarship (with one aspect of such scholarship being a lack of foregone conclusion – eisegesis – headed into the fray) that de-classifies homosexual practice as sin. In fact, I’d say that the scholarship in support of egalitarianism (which I tend to disagree with) is light years ahead pro-homosexual practice “scholarship”. In fact, one of the most scholarly works I’m familiar with on the question of egalitarianism (the one Bell referenced in MHBC’s decision to allow female elders) comes to the opposite conclusion on homosexual practice, seeing it as a cross-cultural prohibition. The closest-to-scholarly paper I’ve read in support of homosexual practice not being a sin noted up front that you must consider Paul to be mistaken in his teaching and the OT Law to have no bearing whatsoever in guiding sexual morality in order to support his conclusion.

So, to make that particular issue one of Rodney King theology just doesn’t fly…

Lying is wrong, but we don’t freak out when people lie to save another’s life. OR kill if they even perceive a threat to their life.

And I can point you to the biblical justification for each, along with the section of oral law Jesus supported (with the Parable of the Good Samaritan) exactly those choices. The only sins you were prohibited from committing in defense of an innocent life were idolatry and sexual immorality. Thus, lying to prevent the taking of innocent life (like Rahab with the Hebrew spies) or killing in self-defense (or defense of another innocent life) were not counted as sins.

39   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:26 pm

Besides, sin is not the balance of death which is the real problem… for Jesus became sin and in that sin was put to death on the Cross… it was already dealt with. We are to show Grace and kindness to show the kindness of God that in His Grace He already took away sin and now offers Life… that is salvation… the balance is not equal parts convicting someone then equal parts giving them grace… then it becomes our works that saves someone and not salvation from God alone.

Most people who cannot see their own seen do… really they do… yet they choose to live in death to please their fleshly desires. Yet most have heard of judgement… I mean just take a pole sometime and ask how many people have heard of hell? I would guarantee that they have, though many will just say they do not believe in it… so they already know about hell and judgement. But most do not hear about forgiveness or Grace or the exchanged life. Again… no really need for balance if God is doing the conviction and we are to share the Life of Christ in us.

iggy

40   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:27 pm

The balance in the presentation is all important; if people are not aware of sin, and how God views it, they cannot (or will not) repent. So we must be willing to present both sin and judgement with mercy and grace. And we cannot sit in an ivory tower and share our opinions about others without being willing to actively engage the people who need the message.

I fully agree…

41   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:28 pm

This should be:

“Besides, sin is not the balance of life; death is, which is the real problem..”

42   Chris L    http://www.fishingtheabyss.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:32 pm

Here’s an example of what I’m talking about, from Kamp Krusty

43   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 16th, 2009 at 4:38 pm

#37

Romans 3:19-20

19 Now we know that whatever the Law says, it speaks to those who are under the Law, so that every mouth may be closed and all the world may become accountable to God;
20 because by the works of the Law no flesh will be justified in His sight; for through the Law comes the knowledge of sin.

The use of the law in our witness is needed because it closes the mouth of the person, and it makes him aware of his accountability before a just and holy God. It makes those under the law (the Jews) aware of their sinfulness, even where he or she is blinded, the law brings an awareness of sin. Without an awareness of sin, we cannot begin to understand the need for grace, for forgiveness. Balance.

Romans 4:15

15 for the Law brings about wrath, but where there is no law, there also is no violation.

The law also brings about wrath, an awareness of punishment, indeed, a fear of God which is the beginning of wisdom. Balance.

Jesus used the law:

The Rich Young Ruler, Mark 10:17-27(2)

17 As He was setting out on a journey, a man ran up to Him and knelt before Him, and asked Him, “Good Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?”
18 And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call Me good? No one is good except God alone.
19 “You know the commandments, ‘Do not murder, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and mother.’ “

Jesus went through the horizontal commands, the law, with this man. He did not say to him “I will just give you grace and love and mercy” No, He demonstrated to the man his need by going through the moral law.

20 And he said to Him, “Teacher, I have kept all these things from my youth up.”
21 Looking at him, Jesus felt a love for him and said to him, “One thing you lack: go and sell all you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.”
22 But at these words he was saddened, and he went away grieving, for he was one who owned much property.

Jesus knew the young man better than he knew himself, and recognized that the man had transgressed the first of the two commandments. He love his money more than he loved God, and therefore he made an idol out of his money. This presentation of the law of God silenced the man. With it, Jesus offered the man eternal life if he would repent (change his mind) about the position of money. Balance of law with an offer of grace. The young man didn’t know he sinned. The young rich man thought he was righteous. He needed to be put in his place by the law before he could find forgiveness.

23 And Jesus, looking around, said to His disciples, “How hard it will be for those who are wealthy to enter the kingdom of God!”
24 The disciples were amazed at His words. But Jesus answered again and said to them, “Children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom of God!
25 “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”
26 They were even more astonished and said to Him, “Then who can be saved?”
27 Looking at them, Jesus said, “With people it is impossible, but not with God; for all things are possible with God.”

Jesus says anyone can be saved; it is impossible for men, but possible with God. Balance.

44   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 4:54 pm

PB,

Again… not one verse stated “balance”… and it is the job of the Holy Spirit to convict someone… not our job.

In fact, when we confront sin… we are not to use the Law… but gentleness…

Also, to stay in fear… does not negate wrath… it is Love that negates wrath… so to lead someone to fear does not bring them to perfection in Christ… it may make them aware of God…

But still I was lost as could be and very aware of God… and so many other people are to…

Again, you turn to the Law to balance Grace? They are not equal at all and there is no balance. Wrath is not the balance of grace… justice is… to use the Law as balance then God needed to just be just and we are all lost. Grace is not the balance of wrath…

Think of this… how balanced is this.

Romans 5: 18. Consequently, just as the result of one trespass was condemnation for all men, so also the result of one act of righteousness was justification that brings life for all men.

Yet even more, your understanding of the Law is rather lacking as sin was here well before the Law… It is not the Law that reveals our sin… it adds to our sin.

Romans 5: 19. For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous. 20. The law was added so that the trespass might increase. But where sin increased, grace increased all the more, 21. so that, just as sin reigned in death, so also grace might reign through righteousness to bring eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

The Law was not purposed to convict us but to add more judgment to us…. Again, you are also relying on the Law to do the job of the Holy Spirit.

Your view of the rich young ruler is also missing that it was not that the man was to go through the moral law… but to give up all (wow such balance) to follow Jesus.

Even your last statement shows that you are missing the point… there is no balance… if it is impossible for us, but possible for God. If there was a true balance then we could do the impossible ourselves… by doing works to balance out the sin and wipe away death.

So, you have proven my point. Sadly you misunderstand the laws purpose and the power and working of the Holy Spirit… in fact you make the Law do His job.

iggy

45   Neil    
January 16th, 2009 at 5:38 pm

…there are a lot of tares among the wheat, nathan…. – Pastorboy

Two question;
1) are you equating the Church with the Kingdom, since the parable is about the Kingdom and you applied it to the church?
2) did you notice we are told NOT to try and pick the weeds from the wheat – but leave that up to the harvester?

46   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 6:00 pm

Chris L,

thanks for your response.

I wonder if you’ve read any work that deals with the philological issues–especially with respect to NT texts?

I don’t see those as eisegetical so much as a real reasoned basis on which to argue a different understanding of those prohibitions.

It was philological arguments that clinched by move to egalitarianism.

My actual point is that we are on shaky ground when we make automatically make broad sweeping claims about the inner disposition of people–”people don’t take sin seriously” or “have rejected the authority of scripture”–in response to what we believe to be mistakes or incorrect conclusions.

THAT is what I’m really getting at. Again, I clearly haven’t done a good job of making the point.

I still think some of you here need to really take stock of the fact that you have some kind of need to cast things in just that light right out of the gate.

For the record, i would guess that we probably agree about the presenting issue…but that’s not really the issue to me, nor is it the lightening rod/litmus test that it has clearly become for some.

peace

47   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 16th, 2009 at 6:07 pm

When Jesus was brought to Johnthe Baptist hw was immediately brought low in His presence. When the Centurian just got a glimpse of Christ, as well as the thief on the cross, they both were brought to faith purely on the weight of seeing the Christ.

I do not discount a person being convicted of their sin, however I feel stongly that the best and most effective way to show a person his sin and his need is to show them Jesus Christ. I have met only a couple of people who thought they were not sinners, but I have met – and I am one – who came to faith simply be being convinced of the Spirit about who Jesus was and is.

If a person cannot see that something is sin, no amount of screaming, no amount of hyperbole, no amount of rhetoric, and no amount of name calling will accomplish that task, it is the Spirit’s ministry. Our calling is lifting up Jesus Christ within the context of His gospel and enhanced by the revelation of our lives.

The ministry of seeking, finding, and exposing the sin of others is headed by the senior pastor called Satan.

48   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 16th, 2009 at 6:09 pm

Rick…

The ministry of seeking, finding, and exposing the sin of others is headed by the senior pastor called Satan.

Ouch… agree with it but ouch! If it be done by anyone other than the Holy Spirit that is.

iggy

49   nc    
January 16th, 2009 at 6:23 pm

Iggy,

Haven’t you learned anything from being on this site?

There’s a guy in New Mexico who replaced the Holy Spirit. All that stuff is ok now.

50   kenn    
January 17th, 2009 at 11:21 pm

Ingrid is never better than when she’s going on about sex. Even ridiculing the Christiannymphos website. I visited the site. It was pleasantly interesting. Married people enjoying sex. But I guess in Ingridland, you’re not supposed to enjoy it too much. Ingrid is preggers (there’s an image I’d rather not have burned in to my brain), but i’m sure the procedure was executed in a clinical and efficient manor. None of that wacky nympho stuff for her. And certainly, with a minimum of fanny shaking. On the other hand, maybe she’s really a middle-aged tigress after all. Ingrid the dominatrix…whipping her man in to submission. Yeow!

51   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 18th, 2009 at 12:04 am

Ingrid is preggers

I made that claim a couple of months back and she was really angry with me… so please do not accuse her of being pregnant as that makes her angry as it seems she hates the very idea!

:lol:
iggy

52   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 18th, 2009 at 12:05 am

Actually I reported the claim that a listener to her show stated she said she had “morning sickness”…

Now… did she actually lie to me in her claim she was not preggers!

iggy

53   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 18th, 2009 at 7:44 am

Those comments are aimed at Ingrid personally and are not corrective about her writings. Inappropriate.

54   nc    
January 18th, 2009 at 9:49 am

Actually, I’m wondering…

What’s the big deal about this pregnant vs. not pregnant thing?

Who cares if she is or not?

How does it matter?

55   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
January 18th, 2009 at 9:50 am

I think this sort of talk is stupid and has no place here in this thread or on this blog. The post is not about ingrids personal life. Drop it now, please.

56   nc    
January 18th, 2009 at 10:32 am

That’s what I’m trying to get at…

I just don’t get why it matters…and on the other side, why did ADM’s apparently get offended by it?

What’s the big deal?

57   Chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
January 18th, 2009 at 12:17 pm

Consider this a public rebuke.

We will not tolerate anymore statements about Ingrid’s private life. We will focus on her published work and only that. It will not be acceptable to counter her published work with statements of her private life. This is unacceptable and counter to what our stated goals for this site. Any further comments of said nature will be deleted and those making comments will be put into moderation.

“Above all be clothed in love”

58   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 18th, 2009 at 2:07 pm

I also reported that Richard Abanes was Preggers and he did not deny or confirm it. He just laughed.

iggy

59   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 18th, 2009 at 2:17 pm

I do not see that IF Ingrid is pregnant or not and saying that she MIGHT be (which I did not bring up in this thread; I only observed the behavior that she had over the last time that was stated about her) How is the beauty and wonder of pregnancy an attack on her person?

And how is that about her private life IF she states something like that on her radio show… in fact I would congratulate her if she was and see nothing wrong in if she was. I too am an “older” parent as my wife and I were 39 when my son was born.

I also understands she writes about he adoptions on occasion and you all pointed at that and applauded… that too is her personal life… so why is that OK and a IF she is pregnant and stated it is not?

Again, I do not know if Kenn really knows… Isn’t Kenn that Ingrid stalker anyway… the one that claims he was going to marry her before she married her current husband… so how much stock should be put in his statements anyway?

Yet, again, whether she is or not, pregnancy is a joyous occasion. It is a gift from God and why someone would be offended IF she is is beyond me.

Now IF she is I hope this site to be consistent with the demands in 55 and 57 will not acknowledge it at all IF she announces she is… I hope to be consistent with those demands that this site totally ignores it if that is how you guys all feel.

iggy

60   chris    
January 18th, 2009 at 2:35 pm

Iggy,

None of that as anything to do with the OP. The statements that were made are a swipe at Ingrid. Regardless of Kenn saying it or you confirming it does little to engender “profitable speech”.

We at this site are different because we hold each other accountable, call each other to a higher standard, and apologize when we are wrong. In that I feel we are more consistent than others.

Sorry if you disagree but we do try.

61   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 18th, 2009 at 2:55 pm

I am not saying that this site is no different than the ODM’s…

Really this OP was about how ODM’s have pointed to people we found to enjoy… and sex.

How is sex not personal to write “(sex)” in about every sentence and that not a swipe at their personal lives meaning that they view sex as dirty?

To me claiming the ODM views all sex as dirty is a much bigger swipe than IF Ingrid was or was not pregnant which I find funny that IF she is would be considered a swipe.

I admit they seem to have an unhealthy obsession with it, yet, pregnancy is not dirty or wrong.

I truly doubt she is… and even now though IF she is found to be, I would not believe it because of her angry reaction the last time!

Now saying all that… one of the results of sex is pregnancy… it is directly connected. So really this is much more on point to the OP than the discussion above with PB whether balance is biblical or the teachings of Yin/Yang.

Ingrid is married and I am sure she enjoys her husband… and that is as it should be. My point above was tied into the OP in how she was offended by the idea that someone believed she might be pregnant… (sex)

Whether she is or not makes no difference… it was her reaction to the idea! Get it? (sex)

62   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 18th, 2009 at 3:14 pm

I am pretty sure we should move on and avoid that subject in the future.

63   nc    
January 18th, 2009 at 4:18 pm

I’m totally at a loss now…

I don’t get what this argument is about…

can someone explain to me 50-62?

64   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 18th, 2009 at 4:26 pm

nc – there is no argument. We have stedfastly attempted not to remark about people personally. (weight, hair, personal problems, etc.) In that light, no one here actually believes Mrs. Schleuter is pregnant and any remarks about that issue are inflamatory and inappropriate. This is not the first such discussion but let us make it the last.

Case closed.

65   nc    
January 18th, 2009 at 4:35 pm

huh, i’m still lost…

I don’t see how “pregnancy” is a “personal attack”.

I also don’t see how it’s pertinent to any discussion here.

I’m confused as to why it was brought up in the first place.

I’m confused why anyone would be offended even if it was.

It seems more like a non-sequitur that isn’t worth responding to or characterizing as questionable.

Then again, I don’t know the background of the initial conversation.

whatever, right?

66   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 18th, 2009 at 4:39 pm

There is history to the subject, let us leave it at that.

67   nc    
January 18th, 2009 at 5:01 pm

got it.

:)

68   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 18th, 2009 at 5:03 pm

Back to the subject:

“God is allowing this to be unleashed because of America’s rebellion and the wickedness within His own church.”

If that is true, and if we can say that with complete authority, then why would we criticize it? In Hebrews it tells us that who God loves He corrects, but where in the New Testament does it say that God will use gay orgies etc. to correct His people?

And Paul (Hebrews) tells us that chastening always seems grievous and we should endure it. How many backsliders feel convicted about gay behavior and make a chastening connection? They don’t even care about their own behavior much less what will go on in a hotel in Washington.

The whole supposition is absurd and Biblically unsound.

69   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 18th, 2009 at 5:30 pm

BTW – to cooperate with God’s “allowing sin” as His correction system, the church should have opposed Proposition 8 in California. That’ll teach this rebellious nation and ecclesiastical wickedness.

70   wilson    
January 19th, 2009 at 6:05 am

If you are interested, Mark Driscoll has a blog entry up dated Jan 15 where he says:

“This week we also saw our web traffic explode with more visits and downloads than ever. That was likely due, in part, to a lot of media attention. People have asked me how I feel about it, and to be honest I have not even looked at a host of recent media coverage; I figured that since “Driscoll” is the Greek word the New Testament uses for “piñata,” it is more of the same old, same old.”

Apparently Dateline and Nightline called as well and may do some TV interviews.

71   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 19th, 2009 at 8:10 am

People are very interested in sex. Not so much in Jesus, at least not the Jesus in the Scriptures. The more provocative, the more media attention.

Write a book about humility, practice self sacrifice, refuse publicity, avoid being provocative, spend hours upon hours in the prayer closet, exhibit poor speaking skills, and you will be left alone except from people truly seeking Christ. Your name might even be “Paul”.

72   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
January 19th, 2009 at 10:48 am

We went shopping today for our daughter’s first school year. After spending some hours in the shops and malls I was in foul mood. All that spending of money and crowds is just not for me. (I sure hope heaven is spacious, and the new earth bigger that this one… ) Walking passed the magazine stand my eye caught the one thing I hate more than the malls – the People magazine. It is full of celebrities’ worst moments. All gossip from cover to cover. People like to read it to feel better about themselves. While reading about famous people whose thin veneer of pretend to be ok came off people feel better about their own mess. As long as Britney and Kate’s mess is bigger than mine I’m ok. The problem is it still doesn’t solve any of those messes. CRN, Apprising, Slice, Extreme Theology, DefCon is just Christian versions of People magazine. As long as the celebrities of Christianity are shown to be sinners our sin doesn’t seem such a problem. In fact, the more the writer can be seen more pious in comparison the better. I decided to stop reading the ADM’s so I guess I’ll stop commenting about what they write as well… Let’s see how long this resolve lasts. (I have been known not to stick to decisions, sigh)

73   nc    
January 19th, 2009 at 1:22 pm

oh, yes, poor little pinata Driscoll…

I go around lobbing bombs that I know are provocative and when people get, well…provoked…I’m such a martyr.

what an ass.

74   Chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
January 19th, 2009 at 1:24 pm

For the record…I like Driscoll.

75   Chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
January 19th, 2009 at 1:25 pm

Also for the record…I like Paul Washer.

76   nc    
January 19th, 2009 at 1:31 pm

I like them too:

They’re wonderful examples of how not to be.

;)

77   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
January 19th, 2009 at 1:39 pm

I like Jesus.

78   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 19th, 2009 at 1:45 pm

“I like Driscoll”.
“I like Paul Washer”.

Have you ever heard of schizophrenia?

I’m with John on this one. :cool:

79   M.G.    
January 19th, 2009 at 1:46 pm

As long as we’re talking about Ingrid… I followed the “Inauguration Orgy” link she posted to learn more about the Obama supporters.

The alleged orgy has nothing to do with the inauguration. Apparently, it’s an annual event that occurs this particular weekend every year.

Simple question: Why can’t ADMs tell the truth?

It’s as if there is an inverse relationship between a person’s commitment to the so-called truth war and that person’s actual honesty. (I think I’ve read that before, but if it’s original to me, feel free to call it M.G.’s law.)

80   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
January 19th, 2009 at 1:56 pm

“I like Driscoll”.
“I like Paul Washer”.

I like Rick.

81   Bo Diaz    
January 19th, 2009 at 1:58 pm

It’s as if there is an inverse relationship between a person’s commitment to the so-called truth war and that person’s actual honesty. (I think I’ve read that before, but if it’s original to me, feel free to call it M.G.’s law.)

When you ally to a cause, rather than to truth you’ll choose the cause over reality whenever they conflict.

82   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 19th, 2009 at 2:10 pm

“I like Rick.”

Strong delusion.

Here is a comment from Ingrid about praying for Obama’s failure:

“Joseph Farah, I, and millions of other believers are praying for the failure of Barack Obama in his attempts to widen access to child-killing in abortion clinics, grant full legitimacy to homosexual relationships through civil unions, and establish a socialist economic system in this country.”

Please not two glaring items in this sentence, one stated and one missing. The one stated is Ingrid includes a “socialist economic system” in the same category as abortion and homosexuality. Could there be anything less Biblical and more western?

Secondly she includes no call for prayer for Barak Obama redemption, or even protection for his family. According to her he is just a baby killer, not a needy sinner for whom Jesus died.

Do you remember when Jesus elevated the sin of adultry by teaching that our thoughts about other women are still adultery? Let us talk about baby killing. Abortion is murder and should be outlawed, but lest we feel smug about our pro-life stance let us elevate that sin in this:

There are children all over the world who are starving to death, many of them in countries where they can be reached. So what excuse do we have when we throw out good food, eat more than we should, and spend outrageous amounts of money for all sorts of things with nary a care of dying children – and these children are already born.

So before we cast the stones at sinners, lift up the unpleasant mirror to our own lives.

83   Neil    
January 19th, 2009 at 2:19 pm

I suppose we could give her the benefit of the doubt (though undeserved) that she left out positive prayers on his behalf since she was addressing her precatory prayer.

But you are right Rick, lumping socialism in with abortion and homosexuality shows how skewed her biblical thinking is.

84   nc    
January 19th, 2009 at 7:38 pm

82…to drive it home…

let’s remember too that Jesus said to hate someone is to commit murder.

So…if you hate pro-choice people in your heart, you’re guilty of the same thing.

I would add, if you’re unloving toward people who are pro-choice, you can say that you’re not “hating” them, but it’s still the same thing.

hmmmm…something to think about.

85   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 19th, 2009 at 8:54 pm

I have asked God to allow me to hate people just enough so it doesn’t become murder.

Seriously, I have told my children that hate has an energy all its own. Once you get used to hate, and once you experience the euphoria that comes with self righteous hatred, you are subconsciously driven to seek it chronically.

I am very seriously, hatred is addictive.

86   kenn    
January 19th, 2009 at 9:50 pm

First off, I probably stepped over the line, and for that I apologize. Iggy, what in the world are you talking about regarding stalking Ingrid and wanting to marry her. Aside from that being a real creepy statement, and borderline illegal, I’ve never met the woman. Not to beat this subject into the ground, but she rcently wrote about her pregnancy on her blog, not SOL, and how she shared the news with Janet Folger, and how they both thought it was a wonderful gift from God. (which it surely is). Why would I make this stuff up. There’s no need to. My only point was that Ingrid somehow manages to find something offensive in almost everything, and her over the top scorched earth rhetoric gets in the way of any point she tries to make.

Again, I’m sorry I crossed the line. I sort of figured it was inappropriate, yet I hit the submit button anyway.

My bad. It won’t happen again.

87   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 19th, 2009 at 10:19 pm

kenn,

\Khere is a guy who “loves” Ingrid and was “broken hearted” that she did not love him in return. He tells stories of watching her in resturants and such. He was one that originally brought this “pregnancy” statement up and caused me much trouble with Ingrid who was very angry that I suggested it.

So again, I don’t believe her… there is no way I will ever think of Ingrid as pregnant after how she stated she had trouble not hating me for making a joke about a statement she said on her station.

Please stop the rumors and lies as apparently the idea is distasteful and below Ingrid to conceive and bear a child.

If you are not that stalker guy I apologize profusely to you and beg your mercy and forgiveness.

iggy

88   nc    
January 20th, 2009 at 12:35 am

are you people serious?

take this crap to email.

please.

89   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
January 20th, 2009 at 12:53 am

nc,

I am just having fun (except for the part were I might have confused kenn with that other guy) as to how petty Ingrid is.

I pray that if she is pregnant and that she had complications last time as she states, that we all pray for her and the baby to be safe.

iggy

90   kenn    
January 20th, 2009 at 1:32 am

iggy,
I’m definately not the stalker guy, and of course, your apology is accepted. We’re cool.

91   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
January 22nd, 2009 at 3:04 pm

And another thanks to the queen of blogdom for this:

http://www.sliceoflaodicea.com/sodom-central/gay-hypocrisy-shines-at-no-name-calling-week/

In an effort to teach kids not to use names, and invectives, and terms of disdain this event was to help kids watch therir language. Ingrid, of course, objects to it because it seems it was proposed by gays and lesbians. In keeping with her objections, she spices her post with names like this:

“the jack-booted foot soldiers of Sodom”

Ah, the aroma of redemption fills the air. It is surely possible to teach your children about Jesus and then destroy all your teachings by living out a Christian oxymoron.

92   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 8:08 am

Musical crimes? Ingrid is the gift that keeps on giving! She cannot even have a reasonable conversation about music in church without coming from a position of absolute self righteousness.

http://www.sliceoflaodicea.com/circus-church/on-musical-crimes-in-church/

When a woman corrects the entire body of Christ and teaches pervasive Biblical standards of music to all churches she is an elder. She recalls all these sordid details of having to endure some special music torture, like we all have at times, but somehow you always get the feeling that Ingrid takes it personally. How dare that church allow that in her presence!

And of course not a scrap of Scripture except “play skilfully” as proof that every aspect of her view is divinely inspired. I love the fact she links to her “favorite” Christian news outlet, “Christianity Today”.

Thank you, Ingrid, you continue to unintentially provide comic relief for some of us shut ins, and your blog prose which used to present a problem now has become such a caricature of hubristic goofiness that it now offers more chuckles than Leno’s monologue. Please don’t change, I have come to believe we need people like you to provide comic perspective.

Keep on giving. :lol:

Watch for my new series entitled,

“Blog Crimes”

otherwise know as

“Uncovered Women in the Blog World!”

Scandalous!

93   Scotty    http://scottysplace-scotty.blogspot.com/
February 3rd, 2009 at 10:31 am

Ingrid is just a musical snob, I’ve dealt with my share of ‘em in the music business!

94   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 10:37 am

“Ingrid is just a musical snob”

No Scotty, she’s a musical detective. Remember, crimes!

Detective, prosecutor, judge, and jury, all in one!

95   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 10:48 am

In my experience as a musician, the people who are the biggest musical snobs are the ones who have the least actual musical ability and/or talent. If they do actually play (which to my knowledge, Ingrid doesn’t), they can’t really back up their talk. Some of the most humble musicians I’ve met are the ones that have mad skills.

96   Neil    
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:23 am

Just to show that at CRN.info we are not an Amen Chorus (all the time)… and to show that we can find agreement with ADM’s when they get it right…

I am in general agreement with Ingrid’s “On Musical crimes in the Church.” – in the sense that she calls for a higher standard. I suppose we would disagree on what is appropriate music, since she tends to be stuck in a very shallow and small world when it comes to “what God likes.”

But that aside, I would agree that churches should treat music as they do everything else, and only allow those with talent/gifting to lead.

97   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:29 am

Well, I too would say that I’ve seen and heard many people who really have no talent perform in church services, but to call them a “crime” is ridiculous. Ingrid is just a drama queen…

98   Neil    
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:37 am

I will grant you that Phil.

When our worship leader came seven years ago he started making people audition for the choir and other positions… it created a bit of tension, but he was good at finding other ministry slots for those who could not sing.

99   Neil    
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:40 am

That said, I’m not sure Ingrid’s blog followed the point of the original referenced from Christianity Today.

100   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:43 am

Besides being biased because of her husband being an accomplished musician, here are some quotes that reveal her point about being careful in music has self righteous companions.

“Churches are now reported to be full of “life” if the state-of-the-art sound systems can make attendees actually “feel” the music, like you would in a club.”

“Conservative churches of the Baptist variety have long featured something called “special music.” This is a practice that deserves a long, penetrating look.”

“Those who want to make up for their absence of gifting with volume or karaoke need to take a seat and end the musical malpractice in the church.”

As I said in my first comment, Ingrid is incapable of having a reasonable discussion about anything. Most churches screen their singers by now.

101   Scotty    http://scottysplace-scotty.blogspot.com/
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:52 am

Neil:But that aside, I would agree that churches should treat music as they do everything else, and only allow those with talent/gifting to lead.

We’ve been around this topic before. My point has been that not all churches have the talent pools to choose from others do.

I’ve been to quite a few churches that have offered up music that, as musicians, I would equate to fingernails screeching down a blackboard. But, it was the best they had and they were giving it unto the Lord. How can one criticize that?!!

102   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:52 am

BYW – on the reverse side of the same coin, shouldn’t churches makes sure accomplished and talented musicians are walking with Christ in love and grace, and are dedicated believers that have a heart for worship, a heart for people, and an outward revelation of a heart for Jesus before they are allowed to play at the church?

She concentartes on the accomplished talent part and ignores the heart for Christ part. Give me a mdiocre keyboard player with a fire for Christ over a concert pianist who is prideful and judgmental.

103   Neil    
February 3rd, 2009 at 11:56 am

I’ve been to quite a few churches that have offered up music that, as musicians, I would equate to fingernails screeching down a blackboard. But, it was the best they had and they were giving it unto the Lord. How can one criticize that?!!

I agree.

104   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 4:20 pm

And the gift keeps on giving! In this masterpiece Elder Ingrid excoriates the “left behing” crowd that remind her of Eyore from Winnie the Poo, as opposed to her camp which are “the muscular and potent Christianity that helped Christians rescue infants from the walls of Rome where they had been left to die”. Is that the same as blogging or marching?

But I find this paragraph to be a literary exposé on judgment, lies, hubris, and an open parade of self righteousness that invites the reader to understand that she is the divine example of the things she lists and has the spiritual credentials to rain down dismissive evaluations on everyone.

“The other caller represented the mewling pietism that passively allowed the deaths of 6 million Jews in Germany and 50 million dead children in America. These are the people who have Hal Lindsey and Jack and Rexella Van Impe DVD’s stacked high in their homes. They view the Left Behind series as seminal work on the subject of Bible prophecy. These are not the ones you would have run to if you were a Jew back in Germany, trying to escape the Nazis. These are not people that would intervene with offers of help for your mother at an abortion clinic where you were about to be cut to pieces. They would be at home, checking out the latest flip chart prophecy guru on Christian TV.”

http://www.sliceoflaodicea.com/end-times/chuck-baldwin-christians-use-prophecy-to-excuse-laziness/

Just for Ingrid’s limited information most of the life clinics in our area are sacrificially run and funded by the ignorant “Left Behind” crowd, and many premillanialists helped the Jews in Germany. I find that one paragraph to be a concise looking glass into the entire attitude and vaunted hubris of her entire ministry. And all her friends are to be held accountable who sit idly by and let anything and everything pass without a hint of correction.

So there we have it, only those who believe in amillenialism or the like care about people, and the entire bunch of premillenial troglodytes are inhuman monsters who could care less about abortion or the annihilation of Jews. That sirs is a boldface lie and Ingrid should apologize to all of us who have protested, adopted discarded babies, supported Jewish people, and continue to care passionately about those issues.

The problem is that we care about the issues of humility, grace, and love as well.

105   nc    
February 3rd, 2009 at 4:47 pm

I think it’s hilarious that she bashes the Van Impes.

They’re goofy and so is she.

It’s just a bunch of ankle biters competing over who’s “the greatest”.

106   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 4:53 pm

So she equates blogging and marching with early Christian martyrdom. You want front lines? Go to Darfur or Pakistan or Nigeria. Until then, you are a fictional sitcom.

107   nc    
February 3rd, 2009 at 9:11 pm

(Just imagine a high pitched whiny voice while you read this)

Oooooh, it’s just soooo hard when people disagree with me. It’s just soooo terrible when people call me out for being slanderous and awful and angry to the glory of myself.

sniff, sniff….

Didn’t she ask one time for some lady to show us the nail prints in her hands?

I’d love to see that woman oblige.

108   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 3rd, 2009 at 9:43 pm

It is what I call the “high tech martyrdom”. It consists of keyboard callouses, higher electric bills due to air conditioning, online posting snafus, unkind retorts, closed comments criticisms, and being metaphorically burned at the stake for standing practically alone for God’s eternal truth.

She is a living treatise on how to be a doctrinal complimentarian while living out an egalitarian lifestyle.

“These aren’t the droids you’re looking for.”

109   john b    
February 4th, 2009 at 2:03 am

Rick Frueh Says:

Just for Ingrid’s limited information most of the life clinics in our area are sacrificially run and funded by the ignorant “Left Behind” crowd, and many premillanialists helped the Jews in Germany. I find that one paragraph to be a concise looking glass into the entire attitude and vaunted hubris of her entire ministry. And all her friends are to be held accountable who sit idly by and let anything and everything pass without a hint of correction.

Let’s just call “Ingrid the Gift” for short.

Moving on……The LaHayes have given multiple millions of dollars to Liberty University, founded of course by Jerry Falwell. I hardly think that anyone would call Falwell a shrinking violet on the abortion issue. Oh, and the seminary at Liberty is officially pre-mil.

Next!

110   john b    
February 4th, 2009 at 2:04 am

Oh, and Tim LaHaye was one of the founding directors of the Moral Majority. Lazy liberal, compromiser!

111   M.G.    
February 4th, 2009 at 3:07 am

If I had to describe Slice of Laodicea in just one word, I’d have to say it’s bitter.

Christians should not be known for their bitterness. Something is terribly amiss when we are.

112   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 4th, 2009 at 7:47 am

The true landscape of redemption must be soiled with the blood of wounded sinners and the Savior Himself.

http://judahslion.blogspot.com/2009/02/soiled-landscape-of-redemption-i-n-this.html

113   John B    
February 4th, 2009 at 1:47 pm

Scotty Says:

I’ve been to quite a few churches that have offered up music that, as musicians, I would equate to fingernails screeching down a blackboard. But, it was the best they had and they were giving it unto the Lord. How can one criticize that?!!

The Bible says to “make a joyful noise”. Now, I could make a judgement on the who is more “joyful”, the women with the perfect prose criticizing others or the person croaking out the words of a song to their best ability to glorify God but………

114   nc    
February 4th, 2009 at 2:12 pm

Is it possible for people to be so unskilled that despite their heart the offering is distracting?

I think so.

However…I do find it interesting when a church is big, has professional quality musicians playing, leading worship, etc. etc. then that is just a group of shallow entertainment obsessed man lovers.

but when Ingrid’s approved folk play “skillfully” in their obscure and resentment filled ghettos then it’s ok to ask for excellence.

thus spake the oracle of the High Priestess…

115   gordo    
February 4th, 2009 at 3:01 pm

Whenever I read about this type of musical snobishness, and that is what it is – snobishness, I’m reminded of the story of the widow’s mite. Honestly, does anyone think God cares about the quality of the performance over the heart of the performer?

116   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 4th, 2009 at 5:50 pm

The bible states true worship is “in spirit and in truth” and that we are “living sacrifices” rendering all we do unto God.

There is a sad idea that the building is a house of worship, and that a worship service is about singing… and to me that is a shallow view of worship.

To say those worshiping who can’t sing should not, is really unbiblical. There are many who “sing” and cannot carry a tune. Most realize this. Some are gifted more than others and though they are up front leading, it in no way means their worship in song is a better offering to God than those who cannot sing offering.

Now what really gets me is Ingrid will talk about secular events with her husband. At these events often the classically trained musicians are not even believers and could be gay, or other false religions, or simply atheists. Ingrid raves on about their skill and contrasts these people with believers and calls the ones at the secular event “worship”. How can that be? Yes, some in the group may be believers and could be worshiping…. but… really it is a straw man that holds no water.

Now, I have been to churches with professional musicians in front… sometimes they are hired guns and may not even believe… yet the worship was not about them, it was about God…. and sometimes people jus dug the band.

Again, sometimes digging the band is wrong, yet again, we are to exhort one another. In these churches I have seen people come to know Jesus who were hired guns…

So again… to me there is no set rules… only that we as believers have a contrite and humble spirit and seek to bring glory to Jesus in all we do whether that is playing basketball, singing, careers we do, in how we treat out families, and how we treat others… these are the important things… not whether the leader of a worship band fits our preference and style of music and whether we think they can sing or not.

iggy

117   wilson    
February 4th, 2009 at 7:28 pm

nc and iggy – lots of good points here :-)

As a Christian and an engineer, I do wonder sometimes if loud church music is actually loving of people’s physical health:

http://www.engineeringtoolbox.com/noise-exposure-level-duration-d_717.html

A human ear can be exposed to 15 mins of a 100dB(A) noise level before permanent irreversible hearing damage occurs. This is maybe 3-4 songs. I wonder if many churches consider this when designing services/auditoriums.

The only other thing I would want to hear your thoughts on is the use of the term “worship”. There is a bit of a perception, or at least there has been in the past that “music=worship”, as if we MoStLy worship God when we are singing. That’s what I believed in my younger, more immature days. ( If “music = worship”, what are you doing for the other 167hrs of the week? ;-) )

Consequently, there is this idea of the “worship leader” whose job is to lead the congregation into God’s presence or to help us at least get a sense of God’s presence (NB Jesus is with us always, even til the end of the age). I have heard this in the past. I was told so frequently by worship leaders at my church at the time. That’s what they said they were doing. Do we ever think about it like that?

For example, when the Christian band Delirious visited Hillsong one year, they did a session with the Hillsong musicians in which they “wooed the Spirit in” – as if the Spirit is subject to our music and if we play or sing just right, the Spirit will show up.

The thing is, are we as Christians not already in God’s presence by the simple fact of Jesus’ death and resurrection? We can approach the throne of grace with confidence, there is no veil, we don’t need any more help. So what happens when we leave church, do we leave God’s presence? How can I get a sense of God’s presence without the worship band/leader taking me there?

This is not to say that there isn’t something amazing and wonderful going on when you have a congregation singing praise and thanks to God, the expression is and the encouragement and inspiration that it brings, the unity before God and thinking about the wider church, knowing that it’s only a mere glimpse of the praise that goes on day and night around the throne by the angels and the creatures. I just think it’s important to have things in the right perspective, and possibly reconsider some of the implications of the worship language that is thrown about these days.

In contrast, there’s a sense in which the passages in Colossians and Ephesians which speak about congregational singing in terms of singing to each other about Christ (teaching?) with thankfulness to God, and there isn’t any of the sacrifice/temple language of Romans 12:1-2.

The verses are Colossians 3:16 and Ephesians 5:19-20, which, correct me if I’m wrong, are the only few verses which directly address music in the new testament church, which may or may not say something about the emphasis of music in the church. Just putting it out there.

118   wilson    
February 4th, 2009 at 7:33 pm

(i hope post #117 isn’t too far from the thread!)

119   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 4th, 2009 at 8:35 pm

It isn’t that the presence of Christ isn’t always here, it’s that we are many times dictracted. Why then fast? Why go up into a mountain? Why gather together at all? And why have music at our meetings?

Many times the words and music helps us get our focus off the temporal and on the eternal. I think music, especially when a broken and contrite spirit is within us, is very helpful in worship.

The “wooing in the Spirit” and other such verbiage is just a way of saying WE were more receptive and open to God’s presence, and sometimes worship music helps.

120   nc    
February 4th, 2009 at 10:04 pm

When I’ve led worship, I’ve always clarified that while God is already among us, we show love and honor to God by “inviting” God to reveal The Presence in our midst and our hearts and minds.

I think that it is critical for lead worshippers to paint the picture of what we are doing with clarity so that we aren’t just caught up in simply wanting to shake our booty (if it’s a jammin tune), but so that we shake our booty as unto the Lord, mindful of the God who made us and is worthy of our honor and the specific content of the song itself.

121   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 4th, 2009 at 10:24 pm

I think of corporate worship as more of synergistic thing, I guess. Yes, God’s presence is all around us always, but I’ve been in service where His presence was almost palpable. So I think some of it is people purposely being more aware, but I think that God draws near to us when we draw near to Him. He’s not a static being. I’ve also known many people who were physically healed during worship services simply while praising God – they weren’t even specifically praying about it at the moment. It’s just that God showed up.

I also think that a lot of people are just simply too uptight about worship. In my opinion, it should be joyful, and even fun – at least some parts of it. Sure there are times when reverence and quietness are called for, but I think there are other times when more celebration is called for.

122   Eugene Roberts    http://eugeneroberts.wordpress.com
February 5th, 2009 at 9:58 am

The thing is, are we as Christians not already in God’s presence by the simple fact of Jesus’ death and resurrection? We can approach the throne of grace with confidence, there is no veil, we don’t need any more help. So what happens when we leave church, do we leave God’s presence? How can I get a sense of God’s presence without the worship band/leader taking me there?

Wilson, you had me jumping out of my chair shouting amen like in my Pentecostal days. I studied two years at Hillsong and really loved it. The people there really have hearts for worshipping God and that includes much more than music. What Delirious taught is not what Hillsong would teach about this which is much more in line how you described it, although the idea of “God showing up” would sometimes be uttered…

I agree with Phil that we over analyse what should just be done.

123   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
February 5th, 2009 at 11:03 am

…there are times when reverence and quietness are called for, but I think there are other times when more celebration is called for.

Amen.

And these can happen in the same musical “set” during a worship service. A worship leader, who is being Spirit-led, will sense the need for both.

I have found myself moving from literal face-down weeping to jumping up and down laughing in a matter of minutes. These responses were merely outward expressions of what the living God was doing on the inside.

I wrote this awhile back:
http://www.borrowedbreath.com/2007/06/22/silent-worship/

124   Neil    
February 5th, 2009 at 11:09 am

Honestly, does anyone think God cares about the quality of the performance over the heart of the performer?

No. But I think this is a false dichotomy that even Ingrid didn’t bring up. In reading her blog I did not get the impression that ability trumped heart – a generous reading would assume all things are equal as far as heart is concerned – and that being the case her point was to use those with the best abilities…

…just like we do with teachers in our classrooms, and pastors in our pulpits.

125   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 12:02 pm

“a generous reading would assume all things are equal as far as heart is concerned”

Neil – I would politely suggest you read her post again. She never mentions heart/sincerity, except to minimize sincerity when good talent is missing. I would also suggest that her definition of a sincere and deicated Christian heart is much different than would be ours.

126   Neil    
February 5th, 2009 at 12:37 pm

Rick,

The fact that she does not mention it is why I assumed it was not an issue – that a generous reading would assume a proper heart and that the issue at hand is one of ability and/or talent.

I would expect that her definition of a dedicated Christian is overly ethnocentric… I was just addresses what I saw as a false dichotomy.

Trust me when I say, “defending” Ingrid is unfamiliar as well as uncomfortable territory…

127   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 12:55 pm

“Trust me when I say, “defending” Ingrid is unfamiliar as well as uncomfortable territory…”

I am absolutely sure your defense is completely unappreciated as well as unwanted. :)

128   Neil    
February 5th, 2009 at 12:57 pm

No doubt.

129   gordo    
February 5th, 2009 at 2:30 pm

What gets me about Ingrid and her kind is this idea that they have the inside track on God’s aescetic sensibilities. They like what He likes, and He likes what they like. And everyone else can be damned.

It’s not about ability. It’s not even musical snobishness as much as plain old spiritual pride.

God has no aestetic preferences. He is timeless, which to me says He is not interested in changing styles and fashion. Those are the outside things which interest man.

130   Neil    
February 5th, 2009 at 4:24 pm

Gordo,

If I had to guess, and of course I am, I’d go so far as to say God even enjoys the changing styles and fashions – the new ways people see fit to worship him and reflect his image…

131   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 4:34 pm

Neil – every style and fashion of worship was new at one time, right? Unless the book of Psalms was lowered down from heaven all those songs were inspired and new, right?

Please give me the specific New Testament outline that gives commands for key signiture, melody, time signitures, and all other divine guides for worship music. I will abide by those parameters. :cool:

132   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 4:41 pm

BTW – there is absolutely no way to discern whose worship pleases God and whose heart is pure before Him. It is possible that some rapper worshiper is more acceptable to God than some cello player, only – ONLY – God knows.

133   gordo    
February 5th, 2009 at 5:10 pm

There are very conservative fundamentalists which hold to what they call the Regulatory Principle. Here is a description:

“Churches that adhere to the Regulatory Principle will insist that God, in His wisdom, provided certain ways in which we are to worship Him. The ways in which we are to worship are outlined in Scripture. Means of worship that we may invent will not be acceptable to a perfect and holy God. ”

http://www.challies.com/archives/articles/the-regulatory.php

It’s very hard to read about this and not snicker, but there you are.

134   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 5:30 pm

Yep, I have read about it before and the one you limked to. And these are the same people who rail that others take Scripture out of context?

Pot + black = Kettle + black

135   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 5th, 2009 at 5:45 pm

I think I’ve said this before here, but the Regulatory Principle always reminded me of the title of a book that would be about the importance of eating a high fiber diet…

136   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 5:59 pm

:lol:

137   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 5th, 2009 at 6:07 pm

Phil,

I think I’ve said this before here, but the Regulatory Principle always reminded me of the title of a book that would be about the importance of eating a high fiber diet…

They are closely related. If one follows the RP, then they will cleanse the church. In fact, I believe one principle Challies leaves out is the “Scat” princilple of telling undesirables to “scat” and leave your church. Deep in the bowels of every church there is something than needs to be cleansed. We know though that new movements are not always pleasant and should be taken with way balance examination as they appear.

With the proper examination of the movements, we then can tell if our church is healthy. A soft church is not always good nor is a hard church good… but a preferred balance between will give the attender a pleasant experience and they too may be moved as they attend you church. But beware of those that are never moved or release to much at one time… they may not be healthy and should be pushed out of your church as they may cause damage to it.

iggy

138   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 6:36 pm

If you are sure God delights in your worship, then DO IT! The publican/pharisee principle applies to worship.

“I thank God I do not worship like other men, uh, especially that loud music, light show derelict that only thinks he’s worshiping Christ. You cannot please God with your worship without a book on “how to worship” that is ODM approved. That is the only “how to” book God likes.”

Signed,

The Worship Warrior

139   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 7:09 pm

I attended Regulative High School, and I was sent to the principle’s (sp) office more than once!

140   wilson    
February 5th, 2009 at 7:15 pm

#122 Hey Eugene,

I recently attended a Casting Crowns concert. During the concert, the words were shown up on the screen so the crowd could join in. at several points throughout the night, lead singer Mark Hall told the stories about how the songs came about (one of the stories was quite sad), there was even a brief sermonette on Psalm 1 as an intro to one of their songs called Slow Fade (great song). At one point towards the end of the concert, he was sitting on the front of the stage at this church, the rest of the band was off the stage, and he challenged people along the lines of “this concert is just a concert. Bands will come and go, concerts will come and go, this concert does not go home with you, your church service does not go home with you, your pastor doesn’t go home with you and live with you. God’s mission is so much bigger than a concert.” They’re one group who have things in perspective.

I think one difficulty that can be faced, Eugene, is whether some worship experiences are the results of the musical prowess or actual connection with God. Sometimes it’s difficult to tell, and I’m not going to say what is and what isn’t. I have personally felt some kind of high after listening to some of my favourite secular musicians play / sing. Is that wrong? Similarly, the Casting Crowns concert I just mentioned had fantastic music and lyrics and even some teaching so we left feeling encouraged and boosted, so is that okay? :-) (this is more rhetorical)

The thing is, if our definition of worship is based on our subjective experience, then not only do we have a very self centered view of ‘worship’, but if the music is bad and distracting we can think that we didn’t really worship. you know, if it’s dependent on the type/quality of the music. So if the musicians are “bad”, or not up to our standard of perfection or style = bad worship, spoilt mood, atmosphere destroyed, and you end up with people saying “i didn’t enjoy the worship today” “i couldn’t really worship today” (sounds a little self-centered doesn’t it?) what does that mean? I didn’t meet God, or have a worship experience? rather than rejoicing in Christ.

The emphasis of the Colossians passage seems to be on the word of Christ dwelling among you richly as you sing. Musicians serve the congregation by playing in such as a way so as to help them sing. We play well, so it’s not distracting to those engaged with the lyrical content and serve humbly not seeking our own glory, for the same reason. So as a church when you come together, or a musician in a band, you come together for encouragement and joy and celebration in Christ not for your own worship experience. So this also means finding Christ-centered doctrinally-sound songs.

It sounds from Ingrid’s experience that the singer was presenting the song in a distracting non-helpful way which did not assist Ingrid’s reflection. Maybe a bit more practice was needed but I don’t think we can call a bad performance a musical crime, so much as some of the content (or lack of) in these modern songs.

so i think there are two things here:
1. thinking that music = worship, when it’s much bigger than that, and
2. poor music = poor worship vs poor music = just plain distracting.

141   wilson    
February 5th, 2009 at 7:19 pm

#121 Phil said “…there are times when reverence and quietness are called for, but I think there are other times when more celebration is called for”

Agreed Phil

Nathanael,
#123 Your poem expresses this brilliantly. Thanks for sharing that. Did you ever write some music for it? I think it could make a great song… even though it’s about silent worship.

There’s nothing worse than going through depression and showing up at church to sing about how happy I am and how in love with God we all are.

Many people won’t have had a great week, despite the facade we put on sometimes, some people may be struggling in a relationship or at work or with a particular sin and it’s difficult to sing some of those songs.

142   wilson    
February 5th, 2009 at 7:21 pm

in #140 I wrote “The thing is, if our definition of worship”, should read “The thing is, if our definition of good worship”

143   gordo    
February 5th, 2009 at 7:44 pm

“Should we use hymn books or Powerpoint projection? – This is a circumstance. Displaying words in a book or on a screen is circumstantial. However, if the Powerpoint projection includes pictures many who adhere to the Regulative Principle would argue that the Scripture does not allow images in worship, and thus we must project only plain text”

This is a religion based on fear.

144   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 5th, 2009 at 8:09 pm

Blah, blah, blah, yada, yada, yada….

Just worship the Savior from the hearts, the externals usually take care of themselves.

Gene – I LOVE Hillsong worship music!! (their prosperity teaching not so much)

145   Nathanael    http://borrowedbreath.com/
February 6th, 2009 at 10:08 am

wilson,
Thanks for your encouraging comments about my poem.
No, there is no music to go with it.
I’m not a songwriter or musician.

That’d be Rick.
I’m just a lowly poet.

;)

146   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 10th, 2009 at 2:09 pm

Is this Christianity? Is this what Jesus says to sinners?

http://www.sliceoflaodicea.com/abominations/ted-ted-go-away/

147   Neil    
February 10th, 2009 at 3:25 pm

Rick,

WOW… just WOW… even if ya disagree with the opinions and behavior of Haggard, that’s way over the line.

It deserves a post of its own, which I will post tomorrow morning.

Neil

148   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 10th, 2009 at 3:30 pm

Looking forward to it, Neil. What we all agree with here is that grace doesn’t condone sin, it reveals Christ.

149   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 10th, 2009 at 5:19 pm

Neil – Ken runs to Ingrid’s defense, ignoring the command that forbids a woman to usurp authority over a man, and he claims that Scripture doesn’t forbid a woman to speak forth the Word.

http://christianresearchnetwork.com/?p=9257

Please in your coming post show me in Ingrid’s post where she used any Scripture. She only used creative prose to serve her continuing National Enquireresque reporting. Ken even changed the title I am assuming because even he realized it was unchristian. His title, at least, is better, but he still quotes the continuing venum coming from Ingrid’s self righteous keyboard. I love this observation from Ken:

“I’m on record as stating that my friend Ingrid Schlueter often acts in a way much more manly…”

And they criticized Rob Bell for looking androgynous? Yep, it takes real guts to aim at Haggard, Miley Cyrus, and the painted girls of Sodom. I can smell the stake burning right now.

(Please imagine a straw man beating a dead horse here) :)

150   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 10th, 2009 at 5:24 pm

Can’t believe this thread is still alive. :)

151   Joe    http://joemartino.name
February 10th, 2009 at 5:35 pm

What happened to the 10 day rule?

152   nc    
February 10th, 2009 at 5:42 pm

This is the thread that can never die.

It’s a Thread Zombie.